Help, how do i act around her?

Question

she says we are like best friends, but i found out its all a sham. i have feelings for her now. turns out she just wanted someone to be her buffer, so shes not alone, she two faced. she deleted me from msn, then lied about it, and prob laughs at me when im not around. shes always talking to me and shes in my class. do i ignore her/cold shoulder?

she said she grew up w/ no siblings, and is always bored.

Answer 1

No, don't talk to her anymore,. she's just in it to hurt you it seems, don;t get wrapped around her finger and become her toy. you don't deserve that. Please ignore her to the fullest, and if she asks why, or says anything, tell what you feel. Please from a person with experience, don't let her rule over you.

Answer 2

You are going to have to let her go. You don't have to give her the cold shoulder, because doing so will probably anger her over-dramatic self. Be polite, but stop the feelings, or else you subject yourself to more hurt. Best of wishes!

Answer 3

Confront her about it. Tell her what you think. If you feel she is just using you, just forget about her

Answer 4

yeah i would ignore her if i was you.

she obviously doesnt like you that much if she is doing all that and no one should be treated badly.

or you could always confront her about it. be like i dont think you like me all that much and if you want to be my friend i think you should treat me better. or something along those lines.

Answer 5

idk, but move on, it will be hard  

Answer 6

You should go up to her and sort it out. If shes not nice to you then. No one deserves to be treated like she treated you. Nice people never win, well in my experiences. Yah if shes a ***** and a half about it then she can just find someone else to lean on.

Answer 7

drink beer

Answer 8

there are plenty of fish in the sea. Dont give her the satisfaction of worrying about it. Ignore her and if she liked you she will come crawling back. Unless you are ugly then you got not chance anyway.

Answer 9

Forget her. She is mental case.

Answer 10

Kick her to the curb...

Answer 11

exactly what is a friend if it is not someone whom you can talk to and not be alone?  you apparently wanted her to want to be with you in a different fashion.   hey, if she talks to you, why did she delete you?  were you too pushy with her with the iming?  stalkerish?  

Answer 12

Other than physical attraction - the two things girls look for is confidence and a sense of humor.  There are things you can do in the physical attraction dept. including how you dress and how you take care of yourself.  Girls notice little things like your fingernails and how you smell.  This may seem obvious but you would be amazed at how many guys ignore some basic maintenance issues,  

Confidence - girls don't want to be with someone they perceive as needy or socially lacking.  She needs to see you as someone that adds to her social standing.  Even if you feel desperate - never let her see that,  

Humor - This goes hand in hand with confidence,  everyone likes to be around people that lift them up and make them happy.

Bottom line - work on being a better you and be happy and confident with who you are and everything else falls in place.  You don't need some girl to validate your worth. If she is right for you she will see you for who you are, if she's not right for you  - then accept that and look for someone else - she may be right under your nose and you just haven't paid attention.

Answer 13

To much work giving cold shoulder because it is not true for you. You like her so just be that with her.Forget the msn deletion. She could have ripped your portrait off the highway billboard too if she wanted. So what. Ok she lied. Big deal. You like her and that is all you need to care about. She is going to do what she is going to do. Keep your cool.