I have a strained relationship with my parents. I am responsible for part of it, and my parents are responsible for some, especially my mom. She is passive aggressive and a pouter. My wife and I moved to an area closer to both our parents since we are having our first child. Since moving back, these issues have been coming out with my parents again.
Specifically, my wife is now late in her due date (supposed to be last Saturday) and my mom was supposed to be one of our "support" people at our birthing center. My mom called me today and told me that she was going to the beach next week with my sister, brother-in-law and my dad for 4 days because she thought "the baby would already be here" when they made plans. It is my estimation that she is doing this so we will "beg" her to stay and help us. I refuse to do that. So now I don't know what to do. Do I let her go and forget about reminding her that she is one of our support team, or do I ask her to stay and appease her childishness?
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