Help, what do I do???

Question

Okay, so in my school (strict, very strict private school) there are 4 terms in a year. In the first term, I was a bit crazy from the summer holidays and acted a bit retarded (got myself a couple of detentions, etc). I was especially nutty one day and handed a random year eight (i'm year nine) girl a note that said: YOU SUCK just like as a prank, I did it to plenty of people and they laughed etc. So 3 terms after that, I am in the PE change rooms with my friend. my friend was acting stupid and took mascara out of someones bag and drew all over her bag with it. i was telling her to stop and stuff and i was pretty uncomfortable with her doing that. then 2 weeks later in the middle of maths the deputy principal gets me outside and goes: oh this year 8 girl has her mom calling the school saying you and -name of dude friend who did absolutely ZILCH- have being saying nasty things and drew all over her bag with mascara.

i did not draw all over her bag with mascara and i told the girl that and she was like: ok but im still scared my parents will get called and stuff this is a real strict school i might get suspended for a teeny thing like that!! what do i do i havent told my parents yet

Answer 1

I am sorry to say, but you should've behaved in the first place.

It is kinda your fault for the reputation you have built for yourself, your challenge now is to get out of this mess by yourself and I hope you have learnt your lesson. Good luck!

Answer 2

Just be honest with them, it will be better for them to hear it from you, rather than a school officer. (Although something like this happened to me while I was at school and they threatened to tell my Mum but never did... so I blabbed for nothing!!) You haven't done anything wrong, really and they should be pleased that you've admitted your (tiny) part. Good Luck =)

Answer 3

Apologize for what you did do but don't take the guilt for what you didn't do. I think its best you tell your parents before they find out for themselves.Don't let yourself get in that situation again. Hopefully your freind will think twice before she does something like that again. Just be honest. If your friend is really your friend she shouldn't involve you in something you didn't do.

Answer 4

Well Ithink you should get your friend to confess.  If they're your friend they'll take the wrap for it.  You shouldn't be blamed for something you didn't do.

Answer 5

If you really care for your friend, tell that she did it. If you have gotten in lots of trouble and take the rap, that just digs a deeper grave for you! if she gets in trouble then she needs to get in trouble.