Help, what should I do now?

Question

I asked this before.

Was this wrong of me?

This girl asked me for her phone number in front of all my friends. She wasn't ugly looking or anything, she even looked kind of cute, but my friends just started making fun of her and were like uugh and stuff and I didn't step in or do anything, and she just ran off. I feel really bad and stuff but I haven't seen her to apologize or anything. I'm a junior in high school.

So I actually saw her this morning and talked to her, and apologized, then I gave her my number and now we're dating (I know it's kind of fast). She's a really cool girl and I want to be with her but her friends are being b*tches to me. I ate lunch with her and her friends, they were like talking about me and acting really messed up towards me while I was there. What should I do, I don't want to break up with her just because of this. Thanks in advance.

Answer 1

yes..that was wrong of youu...but..now ur together wit herr...just talk to her about it and see if theres ne solution, the msot important about dating is that their not hiding nething from each other

Answer 2

I would say hang out with her away from all the friends!!! Take her to the movies or out for dinner. If you really like each other then you won't be influenced by what your friends think and the same goes for her. The most important thing is ALONE TIME!!  

Answer 3

ur friends are jerks

and jealous

Answer 4

I think you should talk to this girl about this and tell her that you are going to have a word with her friends about this.

Then have a chat with her friends and explain what happened- explain that you were unsure what to say when your friends were making fun of her, and say that you feel really bad.

Just be honest with them. Remember- they are going to funny with you until you talk with them because they are looking after their friend.

Answer 5

hang out with her and not her friends and comfort her that u dont like how her friends act

Answer 6

you should have stood up for her, even though thats hard

well you could ask her why are her friends being that way and you could tell your friends to stop if you really wanna be with her...

if you dont feel anything..

theres no use in just stringing her along

Answer 7

Your friends are just jealous because she asked you for your number, and her friends are jealous because u like her.  

Answer 8

There really bad friends. you should

talk to them about it. or maybe there

just jealous ;)

Answer 9

tell them how you feel.

and make them feel guilty about it :]

Answer 10

First off, that was really mean that you didn't stand up for her but you ended up apologizing. Maybe her friends don't like you because of what you did. Talk to your girlfriend and ask why they don't like you. There's obvioiusly some reasson behind it. Girls aren't mean to people they don't like...

Answer 11

You should talk to her about her friends so she can tell them to stop or may you guys should just stop hanging out with her friends and hang by yourselves that way you guys can have more privacy.

Answer 12

c'mmon now, your a junior in high school so dont get tied down with one girl at such a young age. PLAY THE FEILD!  

Answer 13

oh gawd that sucks because I'm dealing with the same stuff in middle school...but just do something nice for her and her friends I call it the peace offering..trust it works cause if It didn't my boyfriend would be dead

Answer 14

That sucks, maybe you should hang out with her away from her friends and spend time alone with her instead.

Good Luck =)

Answer 15

just tell her that her friends are being mean to you and maybe she will talk to them and tell them to change their mind.

Answer 16

What you did was fine up until the point where you didn't step in and help. That was beyond screwed up, and her friends obviously know about it and probably want her to break up with you because of it. So really you can't blame her for it; she hasn't done anything wrong.

You need to set things straight with your friends though, they sound like a bunch of @$$ holes.

Don't dwell on the past, move on. But if anything like that happens again, turn around and sock whoever says anything bad about your girl.

That will both show them that it is unacceptable, and show her that you care about her.  

Answer 17

ur friends don't care about u if they were ur real friend they let u go out with that girl and same with her friend and talk about this with her  

Answer 18

well if her friends are being rude b*****s then tell ur gf that you'd rather not sit with ur friends caues they are rude. if she really cares about u then she'll say ok. but don't break up with her just yet...see what happens

Answer 19

ur friends are jerks

and jealous

Talk to her about it so then you and her can talk to her friends about it.

Answer 20

Talk to her about her friends. She won't know how you feel until you tell her.

Answer 21

Your friends aren't acting like very good buddies. You better seriously confront them. If they're willing to break off their friendship with you because they think your girlfriend's a loser, then I would invest in some more understanding friends. I don't think it'll go that far, though; as long as your friends are willing to understand, you shouldn't have to sacrifice your friendship with them for your girlfriend, or vice versa.

Good luck! I hope it works out.

EDIT! I misread and thought it was your friends who were being mean to you when you ate lunch with her. Whoa. Anyways, instead of confronting YOUR friends, you should confront HER friends. Seriously, they should be happy for your girlfriend, not condescending towards you. Also confront your girlfriend and tell her how you feel. That way she can tell her friends to chill.