Help,girl is getting raped by her father !! what can i do??..??..??..??

Question

a girl i hated once id getting sexually abused at the age if 14 by her dad at their home.

i found her crying in the toilet in school,she knows me well but we never got on ,i dont know why she told me but now i dont have a clue what to do

...her mom gos away to work,and she comes back in the evening,so the dad has a chance to abuse her for about 3-4 hours each day after school....

it is so disgusting !! i dont know what to tell her, she does not want to hurt her mom etc by this and so she does not want to tell her

i think she should ..but i cant do it for her !!

wat can i do? its so hard to see her like this

he also beats her,she has to do everything that he tells her too !!

he says that if she tells anyone then he will kill her and make it look as if she ran away or something !!

plz helpp !!

Answer 1

Tell your parents and call someone.....

if she is 14 is is and even bigger charge then if she was 15, don't ask why just get the sick f**ker in jail.....

poor baby..=(

Answer 2

Im sorry. you're in such a hard spot.

The best thing you can do is try to get her to tell someone. reassure her that it will be stopped and he'll be put away and wont be able to hurt her anymore.

Goodlck.

Answer 3

She has to tell someone she trusts.  Or if she is too scared, tell your parents, they can help.  It difficult situation!

Answer 4

She needs to tell an adult.

Answer 5

You need to call the district attorneys office, or child protective services.  This is a crime and he needs to be stopped.

Answer 6

You need to tell an adult.

Answer 7

go tell child services

Answer 8

go with her one day to the school counselor , or the police & report everything espcially what she told you about him killing her and making it look like she ranway! just make sure she tell's everything. if she tell's the school counselor the won't send her home they'll just call the police. if she goes to police they'll bring her father in. but she'll need proof of the beatings & everything. but your going to have to go with her. or you could let her come over to your house one day & you both tell your mom or dad they'll surely call the police. but her father is a very perverted man who needs to be put away. but if she doesn't tell now it could ruin her life forever she may have intimacy problems & may not be able to trust men. so i would tell now & try to get help.

Answer 9

this is horrible.. shes crying out for help from you .. you should do ANYTHING it takes to help her.. i mean ANYTHING... tell your parents.. tell someone before this girl ends up dead .. shes depending on you to have the courage she may not have.. dont let her down please..  

Answer 10

CALL THE POLICE AND REPORT IT...NOW!!!!!!!

Answer 11

tell the school. they will have to cal the police, let them handle it, you are too young for this responsibility.

i hope everything is ok

x*x

Answer 12

ppssshh. he's not gonna kill her.

she needs to tell her mom. if she doesnt want to then u have to. thats ridiculous. how the h**l is that gonna keep on happening? tell someone. that girl is gonna be traumatized. she should see a shrink too after she tells her mom cause that could relel mess her up mentally. and talk to her too, she obviously needs someone there for her.

Answer 13

tell somebody fast

Answer 14

police 911

Answer 15

you can either go see the school counceller, call the police, or go to the police station, but don't take action your selves cos he might run away, and like kill himself, he needs to be prosecuted, just be there for her for the time being, she needs a friend she can talk to.

Answer 16

tell your mom or dad what is happening.. and they will know what to do.. you need to think about ths.. if he keeps doing this to her he will mess her up for life mentally.. she will never trust men.. she will thank you one day and she might be mad in the beginning but it is the best thing for her right now.. this man needs to go to jail.

Answer 17

That man should be prosecuted!  That is just wrong, tell your guidance counselor or go to your parents, they would know what to do.

Answer 18

She is either telling the truth or making it up...either way she needs major help.

Tell your parents, they will know what to do.

Don't risk keeping your mouth shut...Lord, I hope she's fibbing....poor girl....TELL YOUR PARENTS RIGHT NOW!!!!

Answer 19

You need to talk to your parents. The girl needs help and you could very well provide it. It's a hard situation to deal with though, understandably.

Oh, by the way. I've reported you to YAHOO! answers for following my questions and stalking me. You're pregnant at 14, right? lol... and you call me stupid? Have fun losing your childhood honeybuns. xoxox. Don't  your parents care enough? Why didn't they watch you? And i also saw you used those pictures of the model and said they were yours. Why are you too ashamed to show your own pictures?

Answer 20

Go to the school counselor right away.  Your new friend needs serious help, and she's understandably too scared to tell anyone herself.  If you're worried about her safety, remember that she isn't safe NOW, and that the police will be able to help her.

<3 Kelsey  

Answer 21

am sure your trying to be a good friend..but  a good friend would tell her mother.. try talking to her calm her down.. perhaps inviting her to your house in the afternoons would be a great idea ..atleast until you can manage to talk to her mom..Also one thing that works is talking to your parents about it..and then it would be sorta a adult to adult thing. i have had a situation like this, and my friend spoke to her parents and her parents spoke to the childs mother and from there her mother took charge.  heres an url to help you.http://www.nspcc.org.uk/HelpAndAdvice/he...



with love kitty.

lets hope the b*****d get caught!

Answer 22

tell the cops whats up and ask them to spy on her house between the hours her mom is at work.

Answer 23

As hard as it might be and as much

as you dont want to call the cops now!

If you dont this girl might end up dead

and how would you feel after that?

You also need to be there for her

be her friend after everything gets

taken care of and the cops get called

and he gets what he deserves then help

her get her youth back because he took

it away. If she wants to and if you willing to

do it hang out with her make her

happy and let her know that your gonna stick

by her side no matter what!

Your obviously important to her because

she came to YOU for help...

Call the cops now please!

Answer 24

tell your parents and/or call the police