to make a long story short. My niece, by marriage, is staying with me, my husband and our kids. My niece is 12 years old, her dad has full custody. my niece has been living with her dad's mom since she was 5 years old. the grandma died about a month ago and she has been staying with us since. her dad works offshore on an oil rig, so he isnt where he can keep her and we live in two different school areas. He wants us to adopt he with stipulations. he wants to set up payments, but wants us to come up with an amount. he said that the regular child support amount would break him ( he is remarried with twin two year olds). FINIALLY, MY QUESTION. How much should I say is needed for her? my mother-n-law says $250 a month. but should i put in there for him to buy school clothes and supplies and stuff like that.
PLEASE HELP!!! We want her so bad, but want to make sure her dad will be in the picture and there to help with things she NEEDS. I have 3 kids of my own.
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