Help! Anyone Out There Who Has Had Same Problem?

Question

I Have been trying for 5 months to get pregnant...

its a loss every month when i find out that I'm not... so has anybody had the same problem in the past and is now pregnant... if so what did you do differently or do to help???

Im desperate!

Answer 1

u should go to a doctor!!

Answer 2

I'm afraid 5 months is not very long as far as TTC is concerned.

We were lucky with our first in that we fell in the first month.

Our second took 9 months and our third, 7.

It can take up to 18 months for a normal, healthy couple.

Baby dust to you!

Answer 3

It took me 6 months to conceive.  The thing I did differently that cycle was not think about having a baby.  It started to take over my whole life, and I just thought differently that cycle.  I got pre-occupied with other things to keep me busy.  I know how you are feeling - I felt the exact same way.  But it will happen when you are ready - when you least expect it!

I wish you luck in your ttc journey!

Answer 4

Hi! I tried 18 months before getting pregnant. Every month was such a disappointment. And all of my friends were getting pregnant around me. Without being envious, I still felt a little left out, and wondered what I did wrong.

I was charting, baby dancing, doing it all... But I had no ovulation!!!

And then in january the doctor gave me a vaccine and told me not to try, at least for that month --which we did.

We are very sexually active so we did keep on having s*x every other day, but I did not chart and since I did not ovulate, we were not being very careful... Well I ended up getting pregnant that very month! I even was BEFORE the vaccine.

So I guess sometimes it's just a matter of luck.

Some stats to help you : you have only 20% chances getting pregnant per month, even if you are VERY fertile. So it may take up to 1 year before it works.

Keep on having fun with your loved one and baby dust

Answer 5

Try take more iron and vitamin E...

Answer 6

It may take a perfectly healthy couple up to a year to get pregnant because you have a 25% chance every cycle. If you're still not pregnant after a year then you should go to the doctor and see if there are any problems.  

Answer 7

I am at 2 years and counting! so 5 months is not very long! but its hard every month!! if your not charting then maybe u should. I think charting is one of the best way to see if your ovulating. I personally like i village for charting it is very easy to use! make sure u are taking your vitamins. and  give  it a few more months! if you are not ovulating then i would look in to going to see the doctor! here are a few link I like

good luck and baby dust!!!