Help? Boyfriend going to some dudes house?

Question

Ok, so... my boyfriend was going to go with his friend (Jake), who is a drinker, to one of Jake's friends house. Ok, my boyfriend doesn't even know Jake's friend, whom is probably a drinker himself. I told him i really didn't want him to go because he doesnt know that guy, he could be a freak or invite strippers or something over, and he tells me he doesn't want me to go to parties, or even to the mall, because I might get raped. Help? I mean, since he doesn't want me to go anywhere without him, shouldn't he do the same for me?

Answer 1

one you aint gonna get raped at a mall

and its unlickly itl happen at a party.

i think he is hiding something

listen to the other replies those will be better then this but yeah i think he is hiding something

Answer 2

where do you live that the possibility of rape is so commonplace? next up, quit telling each other where you can and cannot go. lastly the likely hood of a stripper party just breaking out are pretty slim. good luck.

Answer 3

Why are you dating a guy who drinks illegally and goes to peoples houses with a guy who drinks and does other stuff?

You cannot control all he does and where he goes hon.

Why not dump this guy and find a guy who doesn't drink and go to dangerous places?

I know you have feelings for one another, but THAT alone is NOT enough for a relationship to work and the FACT that he doesn't do the same for you as you do for him as far as going out without the other one, is a sure sign he is a control freak.He may also be a potential alcoholic and if he gets caught in the wrong place at the wrong time, that is HIS FAULT 100%!

Ever live with an alcoholic?It isn't pretty.

Answer 4

if he wont let you go anywhere than he shouldnt be able to go any where.  is not like it every body who goes to the mall gets raped, thats just stupid,  

Answer 5

controlling relationships sometimes lead to violent ones, so be careful. But to be fair, if he doesn't want you going places without him, then it should work both ways.

Answer 6

dump the control freak, he got issues.

Answer 7

I'm sure it'll be fine, especially since the guy is Jake's friend. It's not like the guy is a total stranger!