Help! Dont know what to do with myself and my life..?

Question

So, ill tell you a little bit about me..

Im 19 years old, the eldest of 2 children. I have been with my boyfriend (who is older than I am) for over 4 years now. We live together, with his mum and younger brother, and I still see my mum, dad and brother all the time.. I often go home. I have lived with my boyfriend for over a year now.

I left school at 16 and started working full time.. I work as a Receptionist in an Accounting firm. The people here are lovely, and the job is good (work is work, but i enjoy what i do most of the time).

I only really have a small handful of friends, and I visit them as often as I can... I go out on a Friday night with the girls for a drink and a dance.

A friend of mine died 4 months ago, along with my aunt dying about a month or so ago, but ive made sure ive dealt with this to the best of my ability... I write alot, and I talk to my family and ensure I dont let my emotions bottle up.

What I dont understand is, why am I feeling down all the time? I just feel so bored with absolutely everything, but I dont know what I can do!

Any suggestions as to what the h**l is wrong with me? Ive been feeling this way for about 6 months or so now. Help!

Answer 1

maybe you're not comfortable living in w/ ur bf's family.give yourself a treat by going out alone and spend time by yourself w/o absolutely thinking of somebody and go shopping or visit your friends since they're the one who u can run in to when u feel down.

Answer 2

You are depressed.  You have been through 2 deaths recently.  I would go see a doctor and have him put you on medications for depression.  You will notice a change in about 1-6 weeks.

Answer 3

i totally understand how you are feeling..my sister is going threw the same thing...try going back to school. school is a good way to make yourself feel more "use-full" and when you finish you will feel accomplished.

Or you and your boyfriend could maybe try getting a place of your own..you will like having your own place..it will also keep you busy and will bring you guys closer..

If your feeling bored with your relationship then maybe its time to leave him..i know that sounds hard but you are young and need to do whats best for you..

good luck i wish u the best

Answer 4

Hello =], sounds like u have a pretty fare life, of corse it does seem that you do the same stuff all the time, like a rutine you got stuck on or something, try mixing it up some! do something way out there! or take a break from reality for a while, do stuff you enjoy, on the other hand, you could be falling into depression or having signs of bi polar..in that case u should reallllly see someone about that cause it could get way worse.

Answer 5

there probably isn't anything wrong with you, are you satisfied with your life? are you still striving to be a better person? Maybe you've hit a dead end and need to set some goals for yourself.  Maybe your life is monotonous and there's nothing to look forward to, plan a vacation? do something different

Answer 6

You are falling into the rut u see your parents in, staying at home relaxing. You are not old, so go out and get a fun job or go to a univerisity. Both are good ways to boost the self esteem. I made it though on school loans and working. It gives a person something to look forward too everyday.

GL

scott

Answer 7

well as for your job you would probably have more fun owning your own business for that i recommend www.homebizjumpstart.com. but for the way your feeling it sounds like random depression can also be caused by anxiety. It probably seems like there is nothing to be depressed about but you are anyway, dont worry thats normal. I have had anxiety for about 2 years now and thats how i feel when i go through it, ask your doctor about celexa or zoloft i personally use celexa, and xanax for the really bad times. google anxiety and see if you have some of the same symptoms. I hope this helps a little

Answer 8

aw im so sorry

sounds to me like clinically depression,

its when you have nothing to be sad over, but your body produces more chemcials than another, and its no big deal, medacine or treamtnet can help, talk to your docotor, so you can get back to your normal self, god bless!