Help. EMERGENCY! Is this okay?

Question

Is it okay to talk to my ex-boyfriend even though he has a girlfriend. I mean we were each others 1st and we went out for 9 months. We were each other 1st serious relationship too. We never admit to anyone or each other or to our self's that we still love each other and miss each other and wish that we were still with each other. Is it okay for us to talk even though he has a girlfriend?

We had a horrible break up and will probablyy never get back togetherunlesss its way in the future.

His best friend thinks that he has a gf just to hide him feelings and he will be back and will try to get me back but I already know that I am gonna say no.

Is it okay just to talk on myspace and at school?

Answer 1

just stop talking to him completely.

Answer 2

no it's not okay. if i were the other gf and i found out about you, i would break up with him and kick your ***! he has a new gf! he moved on. stop talking to him. IT'S WRONG!

Answer 3

just call him and ask him. whatever too bad for his gf. your going to go call him right now!

Answer 4

sure, but why is this an emergency?  sounds like you want more! xox

Answer 5

NO way especially if he has feelings for you still and you know ur gonna say no... even though you obviously like leading him on! stay away unless he comes to you , hes with another girl now dont get involved ....

Answer 6

OK. so what is so 911ish about this question?  

Why are you even asking!  You know d**n well you are going to do whatever you want too!  It's obvious that you have  a"need" to continue talking to him.

This isn't his problem..it's yours!!!  Figure out why you still feel the need to talk to him knowing he has a GF and trying to move on from you!!!  

Answer 7

yeah it's totally fine... as long as nothing happens while he's going out with his girlfriend