Help! Friend Problems! Is This Betrayal??

Question

I think my BFF from Third Grade (Selena), has betrayed me. Do you think she has?

We were so tight. I had hundreds of emails in my inbox-- from her. My mom was yelling at me for talking on the phone too long-- to mmy BFF.

We got in trouble for talking too much in school. Once we had to be separated.

In 5th grade, she stopped talking to me. I tried calling her, she never answered. Once I called another friend and she said she was just talking to Selena! I think she was avoiding me. I thought, I didn't do anything! So at lunch, I sat by her, she said "Get away from me!!" I tried talking to her, then she just pushed me. I finally got the chance to talk to her. She said the reson she hasn't been talking to me was that, "I found a new friend (which I didn't) and you were mean to me (which I was". I was trying to talk to her about all this. She just walked away, every time.

Once we were doing a play, and the teacher brought in jewerly. Her fave color is purple, and she told everypne she wanted the only purple ring. (being selfish with all other purple things). I pick it up for her before someone grabs it, and she says "I wanted that ring and you know it" and I said "I--" and the school bully, which was Selena's friend, snatched the ring from me and gave it to Selena. I was so ti**ed off. She still wasn't talking to me.

We started talking again at the end. She made it seem like she wasn't being mean to me. She still is a little annoying. Did she betray me or have 2 bad yearS? What happened? Help!!

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Did she betray me

Answer 1

What is Raven has to do with you or Selena???

Actually i would say she wanted to end the relationship between you and her because she thought you want to hurt her by getting a new BBF..I got a BF who i really appreciated but he made another BF and they both were sooooo mean to me that time, i was so devastated because i was so into the friendship but how dare he 'betray' me like this, now i tried to ignore him but still make him as a friend..

Did you get close to somebody else which made her felt uncomfortable with your friendship with her?

The best way is hang out with her, go for a movie, go shopping or do anythings you both usually did together.., (if you really want to rebuild your relationship with her) make sure you put 100% of you into her when you try to make her believe you still as her BBF.. I do believe she will one day know you still love her like always...

GOOD LUCK!!!~