Help; How do I break it off with my friend?

Question

I try to talk to people about it and they say I should just stop being her friend.

She can be very mean to me for no reason.

Here is the thing:

I tried to stop being her friend before- and last time I did she took it out on her little sister [who is very nice and is a friend of mine] and I don't want other people to get hurt because I stopped being her friend.

I need help/advice on what/how to do this.

Right now I am over at her house because she invited me- but now she is ignoring me because I was hanging out with her sister because her sister was sad.

Not only that- she TOLD me to hang out with her.

When I got back she was pissed as me and it makes me cry because all did was do what she told me to do.

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I am confused.

What do I do?

Answer 1

Hang out with her a bit less and spend time with your other friends.

Speak about stuff that they don't really care about or don't like, if you're lucky your bud might get rid of you instead. You will look like the idiot, but you will be rid of your  friend.

If they try to hang out with you just go away and say 'oh sorry I have to go' but don't say 'see you tomorrow' or 'catch you later' otherwise they will think you want to hang out.

Try to get another friend to join you and bring up a topic that the friend you want to talk to knows about, but that she  doesn't know anything about so she  feels left out of the conversation.

Find someone who thinks that your friend is creepy and try to find similarities between the two of you and try to gather more people and win them over with weird things that the annoying friend did. To most this is considered hard gossip, so be subtle by saying things like, "Hey Joe, that John kid is really creepy isn't he? In fact, one time...".

Choose interests and discussion that she doesn't like. If you and your real friends all hate the annoying friend, you can also choose a topic that she knows nothing about and obsess over it. When the she learns about the topic, switch to something new.  

Answer 2

just tell her straight out that she can be mean sometimes and doesn't consider about other people's feelings, and that you don't want her to took her anger out to someone else just because something doesn't go her way.

Answer 3

It just may be a cry for attention. I had a friend like that, she always was nice to me and stuff, then she told me to do something, I did, and when I was done, she insulted me, and ran off.

It may be hard, you just have to break it to her easily.

Maybe try talking it out to her, see what she has to say to defend herself. Ask her why she is acting like this. And, ask her if she truly values this friendship.

If she doesn't answer, or you think something sounds fishy, think about her reasons, and if it doesn't sound right, break it off easily. Give her reasons. Just do it calmly, don't try to sound rash about it.