Help. I'd love to have a girlfriend, but I am too miserable of a spirit to deal with a relationship What to do

Question

i see this beautiuil girl and i get sad,and feel liost i listen to music and i feel sad and lost, sad. good things happen same thing. i do not feel sorry for my self. just feel miserable al the time

Answer 1

FIrst off, learn to LOVE yourself and appreciate life and its blessings. Who wants to love someone who doesn't love themselves? Find faith and happiness and uplift ou spirt, your soul. Do good and and recives its blessings.

Answer 2

You must love yourself before you can love anyone else. Find out who you are, take some time and just dig deep inside yourself and find confidence. LOVE yourself, because you're the only one that HAS to. The right girl will come along eventually. I don't think you're ready yet. Find out who you are as a person, and then don't search for love, let it find you. :]

Answer 3

If this is what a beautiful girl does to you....I would recommend an ugly one. jk....

I don't think you should go for a relationship if you aren't ready. You need to focus on yourself and see whats really happening inside. I would recommend talking to some one.....

I hope this helps.....hope you find your happy place.

Answer 4

Yeah... that's feeling sorry for yourself.

Misery feeds on itself.  You project that mopiness and nobody will want to be around you unless you get out of it.

Get some therapy if you have no real people to talk about it.  This online stuff doesn't really help much.