Help! I'm dying of jealousy! what can I do?

Question

My girlfriend is confusing me. She is sooo Loving and kind, and it is so obvious she love being with me, but she occasionally meets up with guys shes met through dating sites in the internet. She goes for a drink with them but never takes it further.

Please assume that what i write is correct and that I am not mistaken. Why does she do this? and how can i get over my jealously (please only serious answers) Thanks!

Answer 1

if you don't like her seeing these guys be straight with her this way you'll even get over your jealousy

good luck

Answer 2

she should not be meeting random guys

fair enough if it was a close friend she had known for years,

id put a stop to this straight away!

Answer 3

Shes a ****** btich for doin tht to u.

Y wud she go on dates when shes got a bf ;S

Ask her and talk to her bout it. If she thinks she aint doin nethin wrong do same thing to her n if she doesnt get it then dump her.

Cuz wt happns if she one day goes out wit one of the guys n starts likin him?

Answer 4

Are you sure she considers you her boyfriend?

Answer 5

I would be like this too, and worried! She doesn't know these people! They could do anything to her and you have to stop her! Look away from you being jealous now and think about what could happen to her. OK, so I'm telling you she won't start dating them behind your back but tell her what could happen. nd you know what that is. Tell her that it's stupid in the nicest way possible and tell her that yuo care about her too much to let her do this. Tell her that it feels to you just like she's cheating on you even though you know she wouldn't do it. just do tell her for 2 very good reasons!

Answer 6

I hate to be the one to break it to you...but if she is meeting other guys...she is not YOUR girlfriend......she could get herself hurt doing that....I am sure its fun for her and it may be just innocent fun...but why not just meet women friends instead of men...I would be on fire with jealousy! so i can't advise you there....what if you were doing that....meeting other ladies for drinks? would she still consider it ok then? I'm confused too??? best wishes to you!

Answer 7

Dude your girlfriend is tripping this is so wrong!!! What makes you think one day it won't go any further know what I mean? I say you tell her to stop or you will stop being with her etc...

Answer 8

It sounds to me like this girl is messing you around :(. You sound like a nice guy who she's taking advantage of. Talk to her about this and ask her to think about how her actions make you feel. Perhaps she's not right for you - i'm sure there's a girl out there for you who's prepared to respect you more.  

Answer 9

alot of girls like to think that they are still "hot" and attractive to other guys, even though they have a boyfriend. She may just be feeling that she isnt so attractive because she only sees you looking at her and maybe just wants to be reassured that other guys still find her attractive. Its like a want to know that she can if she wanted to, but wont...

Answer 10

beat the c**p out of them. or her. or you could try talking to her about it.

Answer 11

Ask her what site she is posting on because you want to go out on dates as well

Answer 12

dude you should be jealous bro dump that w***e.

Answer 13

it is not normal , you have to tell her that you dont like this ,and try to understand what she really wants

Answer 14

that doesnt sound too loyal if shes dating guys off the internet. you need to sweep her off her feet and get her more interested in you. the best way to tell if you really like someone is if you get jealous when theyre with people. so why not get her jealous. meet up with some girl-friends of yours and see if your girlfriend realizes that perhaps she needs to spend a little more time with you. definitely talk about the situation with her and ask her why shes going on internet dating sites.  

Answer 15

she shouldnt be doing that as even though they are not having s*x, that is still cheating in my book.