Help I Got A Real Big Problem ?

Question

Well i am 16 and i got a kid :-S well the other day i got a call from my mum(he lives with her) and she said that he wanted me to visit and take him too the Zoo. the thing iz i dont really wanna be around him-or take him out anywhere for that matter.... im only 15. im not ready for all this daddy sort of stuff... his birth waz somethin i h**l regret. Wat do i do. say yes or no

Answer 1

i think you should see him for the day. you're lucky that you don't have to do all the dirty work and i'm sure your kid would appreciate it if you did something with him.

but if you're uncomfortable seeing him, maybe it would be easier to just stay in when you see him, like stay at you're mom's house and have lunch with him or something?

hope this helps!

(p.s. if it were me, i'd say yes)

Answer 2

Well first of all are you 16 or 15?

Secondly that is YOUR child not your mothers. It isn't right that you should just be able to walk out of this situation without any repercussions. I do not care if you are 15 or 56. You now have a responsibility. That baby needs a father and it's time to step up to the plate. I'm telling you children are not stupid and if you do not be a man and give up just one day a week in your stress free life for this baby then when your child comes knocking at your door looking for answers how many years down the line, THAT will end up being the biggest regret of your life.

And in future its called a CONDOM! In fact do not even bother having s*x. Your not even on a mature enough level to know what its about.

Answer 3

you might not want to be a dad but guess what you are

take a bit of responsibility and see your son

you might feel a lot different once you have seen him

if the child lives with your mum don't you miss her also

try and work something out with your mum before you see the boy

she would only want the best for both of you

Answer 4

YES, that's your child, would you rather take him out, spending time with YOUR child or have a REAL MAN doing everything you should be doing with your son. so i guess youd also rather him calling another man daddy. You made the mistake so handle it and grow the h**l up, fast DADDY! Love ya

Answer 5

Its not your poor babys fault that you guys made a mistake. Your a father, and later in life you will regret not having these first years with your son.  I know you may not be ready, and no 15 year old should be ready to be a father, but you will learn to be, you have to. I'm not trying to dump on you, but please get some responsabilityu for the sake of your son.  

Answer 6

Really, think about his future. He wants to be with his parents, or he'll grow up and be messed up. You need to step up now and be a man, take the child to the zoo. You'll learn to love him soon, even if you are shaky about it now. You want the kid to grow up feeling unwanted by his parents??

Answer 7

well are you 15 or 16? you said both and when you said 15 its when you were making excuses for not wanting to be a father to the kid. its time to grow up for you. It may be rough having to grow up at such a young age, but you really don't have a choice now. its too late. if you do your kid wrong now, it very well may be a mistake made that will haunt you for the rest of your life. your child should come first now. do the right thing man, it will be totally worth it.

Answer 8

say yes, dont matter about ur age now. hes a child and a child learns from wat they see, if u reject him h**l make matters worse.

Answer 9

be patient and do co-operate...every thing around us can be done for our goodness.keep faith and be cool to face the situation.+ve thoughts makes everything +ve.