I am married to a man that has an 18 year old son. He will very soon be 19! The problem is, my husband lets him get away with murder!! The kid does no wrong in his eyes!! First of all, my husband is still paying child support to his ex wife when his son has been living with us for the past 4 months. Next, this kid wont work, he may work 1 day a week if hes lucky otherwise, he goes whenever he feels like it. He brings his friends over to OUR house, they eat OUR food, and even has them spend the night whenever they have no where else to go. I have told my husband Over and Over again that this behavior has got to stop, and he just tells me to shut up. His son is on Our car insurance and also our phone. He is suppose to pay us $100.00 a month to cover his part of it. He only pays when HE CAN! And if he cant, we end up paying his part. Just recently, he took off and went out of town. He called and said that his vehicle broke down and couldnt make it back. We have free towing up to 100 miles, so my husband told him to call the insurance company and get back to our town. He stated that he didnt want to come back yet and that he was just gonna "HANG" out for a couple of days longer. (He is suppose to be at work, but just screwed that off also) Now my husband cannot get a hold of him. He wont answer his phone or call back when my husband leaves him messages. I told my husband that we need to give him some consequences. I suggested that we stop his insurance (after the vehicle gets back here) and make him pay his own. Also, I suggested stopping his phone service. (And again, making him pay his own) My husband will hear nothing of this!! He says if I do this, he will just go down and put him back on. What do I do?? I am about ready to pull my hair out! My husband and I have been married over 10 years. This is only 1 part of what I have had to deal with in this time. I love my husband very much, but I cant go on living like this. Any suggestions would be helpful!!
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