Help! I break relationships easily!

Question

I have this problem since chilhood.If somebody with whom i have a relationship (relatives,friends,mom,dad,siblings etc.) has done or spoken something hurting me.I make them aware of their mistake and break the relatinoship forever.No compromise.I have left lots of friends and girl friends.(only parents and brother are left.)I feel like an orphan now.what should I do?

Answer 1

Realize that every no one is perfect.  Every one makes mistakes.  Life is to short to share friendships with others.  It's the bad times that make you appreciate the good times.  Try it...it is not that hard and it will truly make you a better person.

Answer 2

omg!!!! I have the same problem. I think I have made wrong choices with potential mates and ex's. I think I am judgemental. And like you there is no compromise. There is no closure. I just tell them off w/ out cursing and spell out all their flaws and never speak to them again. It usually has to be something WAY out before I take this stance.

This IS a problem that I acknowledge and I really don't have any roots far as friends go.I have my core group of 2. I do not speak to my mother. I have severed relationships with many people.But ONLY when truly warrented. People say I am forgiving. But when betrayed..I will not forgive.

I call this the narrow path...in the Bible they speak of the wide vs the narrow. Your just "packing light".  As you get older you mature. You become more selective. Sometimes it is good to  be alone to learn about  you. I am just now learning this at 32. It is corny, it is sometimes lonely , always peaceful. I think it is a very necessary phase of human development esp. it today's fast paced culture. Don't stress--ride with it.  God will send you just who you need exactly when you need them.

Answer 3

You need to realize that some people will hurt you but the one thing that hurts the most is when you lose someone just try dealing with it for once because you still have your family i made the mistake of letting my family get to me and now i dont speak to them at all and i mean nobody from my family so dont let it get to you cause the same thing will happen to you im nineteen and i really regret it.