LONG story short: Husband from different culture, doesn't believe in cry it out so we never did that. My 21 month old son has never slept through the night. He was sleeping in his own crib until we went to Russia for a month. The situation there was he slept in a twin bed with my husband. Every time he cried the mother in law came in snatched him up and walked him outside in his stroller. (doesn't believe in crying)
I have cancer and get tired very easily - when we got home from Russia between the jet lag and being exhausted my husband tried to help by sleeping on the living room floor with him so I could sleep. Bad idea.
Now he sleeps on the living room floor every night with one of us.
We tried to get him to sleep in his room, even took down the crib thinking maybe that is what's wrong. He wakes up literally 6 times a night and gets hysterical if we put him in his room. He never falls asleep on his own- has to have us holding him.
We are reinstituting our old bedtime routine, but what else can I do? We really need to get this fixed - I am having treatments and surgery and can't expect my 56 year old mother to sleep on the living room floor with him.
Please tell me the fastest, least wearing method (I really need my rest because I get so sick without it) you can think of. I'm open to crying it out now, but how do we do it at this stage?
ps, in his room he has the crib mattress on the floor but I can put a gate in the door way and his room is safe.
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