Help I need some opinions?

Question

I'm having real problems right now. I am currently pregnant with my fiance's baby. I told him about 2 weeks ago and he did not take it well. Things are still not really ok. I've been trying my hardest by cooking, cleaning, massaging him and not denying him his needs like s*x. So I contacted his ex wife to let her know the news. See she has been hounding him lately and following me around. So I wanted to tell her because maybe she will get the big picture. So I called her and told her and she started freaking out! Screaming and cursing! So I got scared and hung up the phone. Then I went into the dining room where my fiance was eating and told him what had happened. He threw the dish of eggs and bacon at me and said I was stupid because I shouldn't of told her without a plan. Then he left for work. I've been calling and calling him and he is not answering. Now his ex keyed up my car. She's been driving by my house throwing rocks at me. I'm so scared. I don't know what to do. I keep calling my fiance but he isn't answering. I have to go out and pick up groceries for dinner and I can't because she might follow me. What do I do? First if I dont' have a dinner for him he will go crazy.

I'm so stressed right now and I'm crying and I can't stop. I need some advice! Please? Thank you

Answer 1

You again.. You don't give up.. Your fiance which is still married is upset because he didn't expect for you to get pregnant. That wasn't the deal. He just wanted to sleep with you on the side. His behavior towards you is only going to get worst because you weren't suppose to get pregnant and defiantly not tell his wife. You both sound silly to me. He is wrong for stepping out on his wife and you're wrong for dealing with a married man REGARDLESS of what he says about his marriage/wife. Let me know when you two get married. Never.

Answer 2

Call the cops.. then call Springer.  You sound like you fit the bill.

Answer 3

I already answered this one earlier so I guess I am going to have to wait and see what Honesty and Valerie have to say.  

Answer 4

first of all, his ex is not your business, doesn't matter what she does. She is not part of your life.

     You sound like a high school girl, are you ??  Nor do i think for one second, that you thought it would get her too see any picture, except "Red". Only a fool would think otherwise.

     As for your bf, he is mad at you for several reasons, first because you got yourself pregnant, then you use the excuse to cause further drama.

     And last, but not least...he was not finshed with the ex, she is around for more reason than being jealous of you, she happens to be getting incouragement from somewhere!

That's the biggest reason he's mad at you and won't answer.

      Hon, there's nothing you can do to get rid of his ex gf until he's ready to get rid of her.

      And you getting pregnant when he's not ready, makes life with her/others look a whole lot better now. Or with you now trapped with a kid, he's got free reign over where he wants to be and when, after all, it's you who needs him, not the other way around, as you will soon find out.

      Learn to be single and independent, because it's coming if you don't want to share him.

      Learn to think before you act and you wouldn't be in the mess your not willing to admit your in.

Answer 5

Are you serious?  Really, you can't be.  I like the Jerry Springer answer.

Answer 6

You see this is what happens when you get in the middle of another woman's marriage you are getting what you deserve for interfering in their marriage.

Are you sure who the baby daddy is?

Answer 7

Maybe he is still with his ex if I was you get a restraining order or call the police and tell them

Answer 8

Call the cops. Make a statement. Tell them what is going on honestly.

But you never should have informed the ex wife. That is looking for world war 3 right there. But what done is done. Call the cops. Pack up your stuff and get the h**l out of there. Sounds like the finance and ex wife deserve each other.

Answer 9

Nice Avatar - Afro puffs... LMAO!

Answer 10

If I were you I'd pack my stuff and get the h**l away from those crazy people!!

Answer 11

your fiance is an abusive, controlling  selfish individual and you  need to decide if you want to spend the rest of your life like this. i hope you decide not to. in the meantime, call the police and tell them your story, ask if they can send more cruisers down your street. call a friend or relative to go with you to the store. when you go out, carry mace, and/or an air horn or very loud whistle so you can attract the attention of others if you need help.

just dont understand how people let themselves be in these abusive relationships. you need to get your self esteem up and get out on your own. why would you let him or anyone treat you like c**p?? if he wants a maid let him hire one, if he wants s*x, he can do that himself, thank you very much. kick him to the curb honey. get a backbone and do it. AND.... make sure you file for child support til that kid is 18. ITS THE LAW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 12

You are worth more then this!!....I have an 18 yr old daughter that has never met her father...and i was in the same boat 18 yrs ago...i moved out of town and started a new life ...without all the anger and jealousy...I have an incredible smart loving daughter that loves me so much for protecting her!...Always remember how important you are..and how much love this child is going to need...and girl you have the strength to do it!..get into groups with other single mothers..they will teach you how to love yourself so you can share that love with your child....You are spending way to much time trying to make other people love you..if you have to work on someone loving and respecting you , they  are  not worth your precious time! Sometimes moving to a new town and meeting new people is the best medicine!  There are some really fabulous people out there that could become your support group!