Help. I run away from relationships??!?

Question

Ive never had a relationship and i'm 19. I don't know what's wrong with me. I liked several guys, and each one of them once they realized i liked them or i just hang out with them they get extremely desperate to have me! They even treat me as if i'm already in a relationship with them even though we're not dating yet ! What is wrong with me?? Why does this happen??

Answer 1

Hey Morgan!

I really not sure what to say.

However, maybe you are without the intention giving your guy friends the wrong message. I suggest you talk to one of your closest friends and ask them if your behavior or is there something you do without knowing them that leads them on?

Anyways, don't let anyone rush you into a relationship. There is a time for everyone to be or not to be in a relationship. I bet you, you are not the only person that has never been in a relationship.

Also I think you should maybe ask the guy, why he would think there is a relationship? this might be critical to helping you figure out your questions and doubts.     GOOD LUCK!

Answer 2

You must be a scorpio.  Maybe not but you like to be in a relationship but dont want someone in your face all the time.  Its okay its just you give off a vibe that guys want to try really hard to please you but really all you want is someone laid back.  try expanding the guy area.  find someone outside the normal places you've been.  good luck, nothings wrong with you...you just dont want to waste your time!

Answer 3

they just want some you know what

Answer 4

You seem to not like being treated as if you are in a relationship. Next time this happens, open up and say that. You just might have a change of heart and be open to the idea of a relationship once you do :)

Answer 5

Perhaps your sending out wrong or mixed signals.