Help! I said something that really hurt my bf's feelings?

Question

I haven't seen my bf in a week and when we went out with a group of friends, he said he'd walk me home later. Sooon we found out his female friend would have to walk home alone so he offered to walk her home instead cuz i have friends that live my way that could take me home. Well, i said it was ok but i got really dissapointed that he couldn't go with me and got kinda mad. Eventually he found out someone else can walk his friend home and came back to walk me home. I got so mad at him for leaving and coming back that I said "I don't want to see you! Just go and walk your friend home!". the next day he told me he was mad at me and didn't talk to me the whole day till night time. he said he won't know if he can stop being mad at me right away cuz what i said really hurt him. I apologized thousands of time. anything I can do to fix it?

Answer 1

i say apologize one more time and just wait for him to get over it

Answer 2

ok, you sound a little impulsive. i'm like that too, so i kind of know what you're going through :)

let him cool off a bit, if he doesn't want to talk right now let him do that. when he will want to, just act normal, and be nice

you have apologized already so there's no need to do that again right now, because it's his turn to make a move by talking to you again

i speak from experience, try not to be so carried away when your angry and upset. i know it's hard but you have to try it, especially if you have a boyfriend that gets easily offended, like i did

you really sound like me A  LOT :)

so stay calm...let him make the next move. sure, you were somewhat wrong and it's ok you said you are sorry, but he shouldn't do things like this either, and should try to understand you more. it takes the two of you to have compatible reactions

All the best! GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

bj

Answer 4

From what you said above, you were sub-consciously jealous that he was walking his friend home instead of you. Because you had your friends to walk you home instead, isn't that the same thing? He didn't get mad at you, did he? He has a reason to get upset but I'm sure he'll get over it.

Answer 5

Send him a text saying sorry (yet again) but from a girlsl point of view we get easily jealous. I wanted to be with you and you opted to go with another girl, do you see it from my point of view now?

and say i hardly got to see you and i just wanted to hold your hand a little and talk.

hope it works out

Answer 6

what are you apologizing for he left you to walk someone else home..anyways just explain to him that you were upset and you didn't mean it

Answer 7

give it some time till the dust settles down