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Help! I wanna know! Am I being played?

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I met this guy and went to his place with his two room mates and drank and had a really good time. He seemed like he really enjoyed my company and started asking me "what I thought" so far. I told him that I liked him and I thought things were going well. Later in the night he leaned over and kissed me and I reciprocated. I was really enjoying myself and I thought me and this guy were really clicking. After the kiss, and for the rest of the evening he was holding my hand and kissing me spontaneously. He called me babe a lot infront of his friends (one being his cousin.) The whole time his room mate kept looking at us and shaking his head and smiling. When the evening started to wind down he convinced me to stay over because I had been drinking and while I was drinking he kept reminding me of how much I was trailing behind him. I told him that I would stay over so long as he didn't try anything. He agreed. So- we were laying in his bed and he was cuddling up with me and we were just talking. He asked how I would feel about dating him and I said I thought it would be fun and he agreed. Then he continued to ask me why I liked him and so I gave him a list of my answers. He said he didn't want to do anything that I would regret later. That he didn't want to have s*x with me and then have me be all uncomfortable the next day. Also, that he didn't want to have a one night stand or a booty call...that he wanted something more. Sadly, we did end up hooking up, him being the initiator, and afterwards there was no more cuddling. So- I just went to sleep. I get up the next morning and he still didn't cuddle with me, but he was trying to keep sleeping even though he kept moving around. So- I poked him and said I was gonna leave even though the night before he had asked if I would hang out with him the rest of the day and I said I would. I kissed him goodbye and left. He didn't call the rest of the day and I was questioning everything and called him about it. He said that he didn't understand how I got the impression that he didn't want me there because he was sleeping. He made it seem so silly for me to think that. I asked if he still wanted to see me and he said yes. That was three days ago and since then I have been the one to contact him. Even though he answers my calls he doesn't talk very long to me and when we text back and forth he will answer for a little bit but then not answer at all. I really got a good vibe from this guy. He opened the doors and everything and he seemed actually interested in me. Was I wrong? If so- I wanna get even! How do I do it?

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  1. I think you were played.  He got what he wanted and just wants to move on.  Don't even think of getting even.  Learn to let it go.  Forgive him, chalk it up to experience and put him out of your life.  Sometimes that is the best revenge.


  2. well i think you are.

    make a bridge and push him off:))

    haha

    hope i helped:)!

    now help me.

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  3. No, you didn't get played, unless he does this alot to other women. Played would have been if you caught him doing the same thing to a bunch of other girls.Either he's a really busy person or he's just not interested. If he were that interested and if he were that great of a guy he would have called or made an attempt. I wouldn't bother getting even. Its not like its going to teach him anything or change anything. Just let it go. It is what it is.

  4. what a scumbag,learn from this,dont give him the satisfaction of any attention anger,sorrow,or otherwise.If you ever see him later in life,tell him how easy he was,it will s***w his redneck head.

  5. :( sounds like u are.. best tip forget about him..

    Guys like that are just not worth it...

    he may have seemed genuine to me that jsut means he's got his routine down well... dont call, and dont answer his calls by any means... your better then that!

  6. yes - you were played.

    i was thinking differently until you said - " Sadly, we did end up hooking up, him being the initiator,"

    sounds like everything up to that point was just a load of bs.. because if he really didn't want to have a one night stand.. he wouldn't have initiated one a few minutes later!!

    just quit calling him because he sounds like a complete ****** who is probably laughing about it right now.

    if you really want to get even you could always text him in like a week or two and tell him you have gonorrhea .... he will most likely proceed to the doctors and receive an uncomfortable, painful and best of all - UNNECESSARY test!

  7. The only way you can try to get even - without committing a crime - is to attempt to show him that you care less about him than he does about you.

    Don't get mad - get indifferent.

  8. no your not  

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