Help! Im Crushing On A TEEN SMOKER!!!!?

Question

im crushing on this guy but of course he doesnt kno cuz im too afraid to telll anyone but the other day he said that he somked before because he was having problems at home. i dont think its that big of a deal cause he doesnt smoke anymore i think but he is 14 and im 13 almost 14...could this be a problem??

Answer 1

you need to stop liking him ... because althought right now you think alot about him and crush and stuff .... you have to know it wont go anywr....because if he smoked once he might do it again

Answer 2

im 13

my boyfriend is 14 as well

he told me that he tried smoking once, just to see what it was like

he never did again though

i still love hiiim

but i threatened to crush his skull if he started up smoking

:D

Answer 3

no its not a problem!!

just tell him you like him  see what he says!!

Answer 4

why would it be a problem?

you said yourself he doesnt smoke anymore.

he tried, so does most teenagers. who cares?

dont worry about it.

Answer 5

One year age difference is nothing.

That's not the problem.

Just tell him that you like him!!

MANY teens try smoking. Although

it's wrong, that doesn't make him

a bad person. If you said that he

stopped smoking, then you have

nothing to worry about :)

But if he continues the smoking, try

talking to him. Tell him the dangers of

smoking.

Answer 6

nopee not a problem.

just tell him you like him & see where it goes from there.

Answer 7

I can't really tell you want to think but..

just because someone does something bad..

doesn't make them a bad person

14 is a little young tho.

Answer 8

it would b a problem for me cuz i dont lyke smokers and wouldnt want 2 b w/ one. matter of fact i have been in this exact situation but wuz immediatly turned off when i found out.

if u dont mind then i say go for it.

Answer 9

no i don't think it is

it's just wat a teen would do you know its like "oh i smoke I'm cool now..."

but don't worry get to know him and then later on say wat you feel and if he eventually feels the same or get to be cool friends tell him its not good to smoke and then at really young age.

Answer 10

naw ... i mean unless you don't like being around someone who smokes ... just be friends with him and if and when you think you're close enough just tell him you like him more than just a friend ....

oh and if he still smokes tell him that he could get gangrene which is GROSS and made me throw up when i saw pics (not right away but later when i was brushing my teeth i remembered the pics ...)

Eric The Sinner- Go to h**l you mother ****** !!!