Help Me With My Parent Problems?

Question

My Mum And Dad Split Up A Whlie Ago I Got Caught Drinking By My Mum And I Got Grounded I Was Out Of Control And Never Listend So My Mum Kicked Me Out And I Have Been Living With My Dad For 4 Months Now I Like It There But My Mum Wants Me To Move Back But She Sometimes Reali Nice To Me And Then Nasty What Would You Do If You Was Me??

Answer 1

Stay with your dad, you like it there and your mom is either nice or nasty...do you really want to live your life by dealing with whatever kind of mood she's in? and who's to say that once you move back in your mom isn't to just decide to kick you out again?

Answer 2

Stay With Your Dad

Answer 3

If you prefer living with your Dad then you may as well stay with him. If you're not sure, you could always alternate between them? Like, spend a week or two at your Dad's house, and then a week or two at your Mum's house. Ultimately it's up to you though.

Answer 4

I'd ask my parents to meet up and talk it through together. THen if they agreed I'd have like a months trial period at my mums. If I didn't like it I'd move back with my dad. If I did I'd stay with my mum. Simple. x

Answer 5

stay where ever makes you happy

Answer 6

stay where you are, you need stability

Answer 7

well.... your mom kicked you out but now she wants you back, so she certainly loves you a lot and regrets that she let you go.

if i were you, i'd tell her that i was hurt when they got separated and that was hard for me. so, if i go back to living with her - i'd like it if she treats me the way i deserve. also, i'd like to go c my dad once in a while.

hope it helps

Answer 8

Me too, stay with your dad. you might want to let your mum know that you understand that you were out of order in your behaviour if you are feeling extra mature!

Answer 9

i'd stay with my dad

Answer 10

You should stay with your dad. Your mum kicked you out in the first place, she can't just expect you to come running back to her. Obviously if you love her then its your decision. Also how old are you? Because if you're growing up and in your teens (like I am) you're going to want to experiment with drink, everyone does. She can't just kick you out for that, I'm sure she did it at your age.

Answer 11

nobody is perfect.. maybe your mum made a mistake and now shes feeling bad about it. try to talk things through with her but dont make her make the decision for you stay with her if you only really want too