Help! My 17 year old sisters boyfriend is reporting my family!?

Question

I'm 19 years old and my sis is 17. My dad gives her a certain time at which she has to come home every night and her boyfriend absolutely hates this. He rang up my dad today and told him that he's too controlling and said his grandma is going to report him to social services for domestic violence!! (My dad is not violent! He has a temper but he doesn't hit us)!

He says that my dad is threatening and abusive. He accuses him of calling him 'g*y'. And the other day my dad asked for his details in case of an emergency. He then told his grandma and they're taking it the wrong way, thinking he's going to call them and threaten them or something.

His grandma then rang up and started having a go at my dad and even me, calling me lazy and ignorant, (she's never even met me in her life!). She said that when my sister turns 18 she is going to live with them! My sister hasn't got a clue what she wants and she doesn't have the courage to break up with him My dad has tears in his eyes right now and I don't know what to do. I feel like going round there and slapping her, then slapping him, then slapping my sister, then slapping myself!!! Help!

Answer 1

There are always going to be people who come against you. Not allowing these kinds of people to bother you, don't answer phone calls, and just ignoring what they say or do..then they can't get anywhere with you. Why allow other people to control you family issues

Answer 2

your sister should be set down and told all this and tell her that the relationship with the bf is toxic and she needs to break it off with him

Answer 3

Let her report you. WHen they find no evidence then she will be charged with filing a false report. Your sister needs to look at what its doing to your family and let her see the tears in your fathers eyes. She needs to realize this isn't a healthy relationship and that guy and his grandmother are control freaks. Also you need to place blame on your sister because it sounds like she is the one telling them these lies just so they will feel sorry for her and take her side. Such a bad situation.

Answer 4

Girl dont let that IDIOT of a guy ruin your life or your sis's life or your dads....... REPORT him if you have to and to the police if he is acting like he hates your family tell your sis to get over him and his stupid grandma dont let them hate you or your sis get over him and move on with your life tell him he is an IDIOT.... and you hate him and move on dont let him get you down stand your ground!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

In order to have a domestic violence complaint you need someone that witnessed violence. Doesnt sound like they have it.

Answer 6

ur sis seriously needs to break up with that dude...have a talk with her about how important it is for her to do this and take control of the relationship. family comes first!!!

Answer 7

its none of ur buisness

Answer 8

Your Dad needs to tell this punk he is no longer allowed to see your sister.then tell him if he calls again or comes over he is going to jail.

He can tell the grandmother that the reason her grandson acts like trailer park trash is because he was raised by trailer park trash and that's all he know how to be.

He can say"go ahead and file domestic abuse charges,when you have NO PROOF,I will be filing harassment charges against you".