Help!!! My Dad Was In A Car Crash!!!! No Joke!!!?

Question

me and my dad were in a fight yesterday! i told him to "go die i really don't care! i hate you" he got all pissed off and slamed the door shut. i watched him get in his suv. he burnt out then floored it. i fell asleep then woke up the next morning. it was late so my dad would have already left for work. so i wasn't concernd. i raged around the apartment for the day posting meaningless questions on Y!A then my mom comes home crying saying that she was notified that my dad was in a car crash. i guess that he was speeding he left the city and was in the Suburbs and the suv slid on ice and went off a small cliff. he is now in the ER with damage to the neck and back. he may be paralyzed for life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FOR THOSE WITH NO LIFE AND WANT TO SAY IM LIEING YOU CAN GO BURN IN h**l!!!!!

what should i tell my dad when i see him?

Answer 1

Making an amends is an apology to tell someone that you are sorry for what you did. You make an amendment to your behavior--you add something that makes it right by saying you are sorry. Making an amends is a correction technique where you address your regret that you have hurt the other person.

You can tell the person to his or her face what your are sorry about or you can write a letter. Or you can even talk to that person's angel and tell them of your regrets that you hurt the person. Even if it has been years and years ago since you hurt someone, you can still write about it and say that you are sorry.

Answer 2

i'm sorry

Answer 3

I'd start with sorry and progress to more meaningful statements as necessary.

Answer 4

Sorry to hear of your Dad.  Start by saying "I'm sorry & I love you."  Your parents are going to need all the help they can get right now.  Be there for them as much as you can.  Pray for your Dad's recovery & healing.  Since the accident just happend, it is too soon to tell if his injuries are permanent.  Good luck & God Speed

Answer 5

I'm so sorry...I hope he will get better...

you are so right...only now i have fully realized that we are exposed at so many dangers only by driving a car...

you should tell him that he is strong and he will manage to get through it soon...

Answer 6

I'm so sorry to hear that, but your dad knows that you didn't mean it ever kid and parent fight and say things that they didn't mean its just something stupid that we say don't know why we do it I've said towards ,y parents and my daughter has said it. Just tell him you love him but he already knows that. I guess it is something to wake us up and realize that what we say could be the last thing so like I do is bite my tongue.

Answer 7

Just say HELLO--how are you feeling--what can i do for you?? Forget the past and get on with the future. Watch your temper--words can be hurtful. Do not relive the fight at this time--it is only a coincidence that this accident happened--HE was responsible to drive carefully regardless of his emotions--he could have hit another car and hurt more people. Thank God he didn't. get over there and say HI--NOW

Answer 8

hi dad

Answer 9

I would tell him that you didn't mean any of the things that you said to him. Don't worry this has happened for a reason. Maybe this will make you and dad be alot closer. If he ends up not being able to walk again, then he has your legs to do what he need done. This is very sad you have got to watch wath you wish for you never know what will come true. Now you have to step up to the plate and do what ever  it takes to keep the family held togather.

Answer 10

Hey mate i'm an 18 year old paraplegic... Sorry to hear about your dad... but it definatly isn't the end of the world first few moths are tuff but it gets better. I still do everything i did b4 drive, go out with mates have fun. Thing I would say to not treat him any different sounds werid but its annoying when ppl do... Just ask him how he is going and be there... Hope it helps later

Answer 11

JSUT TELL HIM THATY U LOVE HIM AND GIVE HIM A BIG HUG AND NEVER LET GO.

ONCE YOU DO THEN YOU CAN TELL HIM THAT YOU ARE JUST A TEENAGER AND YOU WERE MAD AND THAT YOU DIDN'T MEAN IT AND SO ON.....

Answer 12

Sweety,

Firstly, I donot want you to blame yourself and think that because you said some thing your dad is not in the best of health today. Things are pre-destined and you did not cause this... if only words could make mountains move.

If you really want to say some thing to your dad... you should say..." Dad I love you.. no matter what I say or do I always love you". I hope things get well with your dad really soon But for now.. you should get responsible around the house and be strong-- your mom needs you...

Good Luck and God Speed

Answer 13

Don't worry, your Dad knows that you love him.  When you see him of course it wouldn't hurt to tell him that and maybe say you're sorry about what happened that night.  As a parent of a teen I can tell you that we adults were teens once too and I said some awful stuff to my parents when I was growing up, so I don't take it too personally when my teen is grumpy.  Not that it's an excuse to say rotten things, but stuff happens and it's best to apologize, vow to do better in the future, and then move on.  Good luck & I hope your father does well.

Answer 14

Tell him you love him.    Apologize for the senseless fight,   and show you mean it by not letting it happen again.