Help PLEASEE!!. I am embarrassed to ask..

Question

Me and my bf have a pretty long time together. We love each other. And like I don't want to say anything to him about it. but I have never been to his house. We are always in my house..

Is not that I want to go to his house, it's just that I feel like it's a lack of courtesy that he hasn't invited me or anything..

I want to talk to him about it.. how do I bring it up?

Answer 1

the next time you guys decide where to hang out next week or something, say something like "how bout we go to your house?" simple as that.

Answer 2

i would put the question in undercover start  with somethin like am bored what do you wanna do this weekend i no why dont we hang at your house or just straight up hey wanna hang at your place or after a movie you could suggest it   and i agree that it's not realy a good sign in a relashionship but maybe hes just embarrassed about his home life     give him the benafit of the dought

Answer 3

u guys should be very comfortable together wether regardless of the situation, if you guys were "CLOSE" then why are you asking dis question HOW DO I BRING IT UP? wow me and my babe are close we could ask eachother ANYTHING!!!!

Answer 4

may be the guy is embarrassed about his home, its neighbourhood or something like that

just talk to him about his house be supportive and kind

Answer 5

How long is a "pretty long time"???  How old are you guys???  Maybe he lives at home with his parents still, ( if he is over 21) and he is embarrassed to tell you.

There is NO reason you should not have been invited over to his house within the first month of serious dating!!!  It is strange.

If you "love eachother" you should be able be sit down and simply ask him. Or you could suggest going to his house to watch a movie.....see what he says!!

Good Luck

Answer 6

just say "so i here dat ur place is pretty cul, can i see it?"

or sumthing like dat....

Answer 7

It sounds like maybe there is something uncomfortable about his house or family that he's keeping from you.  I'd simply come out and ask him "Why have you never invited me to your home?"  Listen to his answer and then decide what you think about it.  And let him know that you're supportive if he is embarrassed by his home or family.

Answer 8

I don't understand why you're embarassed to ask him this, especially if you have "a pretty long time together". It's a fair and simple question. Next time he wants to go to your place, ask him then. Straight up; this is not an issue you "bring up"

I would be VERY concerned if I never saw my bf's house.....UNLESS, you are a teenager? If so, he could be embarrased of his home life (alcoholic parents, messy house, etc.)

Answer 9

Maybe there's just nothing to do at his house. Try bringing it up to him in a nice way. Like by saying "hey I just realized I've never been to your house. Can I see your room?" That way it's not like you're acting suspicious or anything like that. If he says no you can ask why not and say that you've been together for a while and you don't see why there should be anything to hide. Make it clear that you're not going to judge him on anything you see.

Answer 10

Start with a complement and then start saying how you like like your boyfriend being "misterious" then start telling him how misterious he is. And how misterious his house is to you. Something like that.