Help! Paranoid about becoming pregnant!?

Question

so my boyfriend and i (of 18mo.) had s*x for the first time tonight and I'm so scared that i could become pregnant. we used spermicidal condoms and i am also on the Birth Control pill BUT i forgot one pill at the beginning of the month so took two the next day. does anyone know how effective the Spermicidal condoms or the B.C if you miss a day? i am supposed to get my period 2 weeks from wednesday, can anyone help?

Answer 1

you should be fine just remember to take your  pill on time from now on you don't wanna be like the other teenagers on here ow no I'm pregnant what do I do  

Answer 2

Hunny, spermicide condoms are the best kind you can get. and theres pretty much no chance your pregnant (: just relax and if your so worried, in a couple weeks take a preg test !!

Answer 3

If you're period is due in 2 weeks, that means you are EXTREMELY fertile right now!

AND missing a pill (even if you take 2 the next day) makes you even MORE fertile! (missing pills is sometimes worse than not even being on the pill at all ..)

I don't think that spermicidal condoms have anymore protection than regular condoms.

My husband and I had s*x WHILE I was on the pill; we also used a spermicide AND he 'pulled-out' ..

<-- didn't work. 9 months later I was PUSHING my son out! =]

Good luck, Mommy!

If you're THAT worried about getting pregnant, you shouldn't be having s*x at 16!

(I know you're sixteen because I read your other question)

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Thumbs-down all you want .. but it's not gonna keep you from getting pregnant!

Edit to Add:

I'm not judging you; I'm just explaining about what happens when you have s*x =]

s*x = BABY

.. only God can judge!

Answer 4

im sure u are fine!! i mean u used a condom and ur on the pill and u are fine you only mised one and u made up for it .. ur good girl ur good

Answer 5

Condoms are 97% effective so yous hould be alright. Its very unlikely to get pregnant with condoms.  

Answer 6

Ignore people who judge you for your decisions in life - They obviously have nothing better to do than be nasty and hypocritical rather than helpful and understanding.

I had s*x for the first time when I was 16 and 8 years later I'm still with the same guy..  it's pretty normal to start having s*x around that age and at least you're being careful.

You say you forgot 1 pill at the start of the month? As it's more than 7 days after you forgot your pill you will be fine.

It would be very very very very very rare to get pregnant on the pill AND using a condom, unless it ripped.

For future reference If you miss a pill, have antibiodics or diarrhea/throwing up you will need to take the pill for  7 days after those symptoms stop to be safe again , if you have s*x in those 7 days you have to use condoms for those 7 days or all the time to prevent STD's.

I would look into Nuvaring - Its a plasticy rubber ring you insert into the v****a for 3 weeks (you don't notice it at all and it is completely easy to put in) and is taken out for you to have a period, like the sugarpills.The advantage of it being absorbed into your bloodstream this way is less risk of becoming pregnant because you can't forget a pill or if you have antibiotics or stomach upsets.

I tried depo (3 monthly shots) but I lost any urge to have s*x as well so there wasn't much point.

Stay safe!

Answer 7

You will be fine...try not to worry. Stressing and worrying causes your period to be late. Even forgetting to take a pill wouldn't be a problem because using spermicidal condoms (as long as the condom didn't rip or tear) is very effective.  

Answer 8

First of all, WOW!!!!!!! You guys have been together for 18months and just did it?! Your a good girl, not easy I mean. Well anyways YOUR NOT GONNA GET PREGNANT WITH LITTLE ALIEN BABYS. First he used a condom and second it doesn't matter if you missed a day of the pill cause its still working after you don't take the pill for awhile so yeah. NO ALIEN LITTLE BABYS that you don't need right now will be poppin out of you anytime soon as long as you guys keep up with your program.  

Answer 9

It sounds like you were safe and took all precautions.  Try not to stress about it, which may make your period come late, which'll make you stress even more.  I wouldn't worry about though.  It doesn't sound like you're pregnant.

Answer 10

Spermicidal condoms are pretty effective--- far more effective than using plain spermicide, and I think they are better than using a non-spermicidal condom.

Also missing a birth control pill and taking one the next day only makes the birth control somewhat less effective for about a week. All that means is that you're supposed to use another form of birth control (like a condom) for that week just in case.

I think your chances of getting pregnant are practically zero honestly. Don't worry about it.