Help!!!! Please.He needs to fight for his kids

Question

My fiance wants to fight for his kids and brought them down from Maine. He thought he could file here atleast for her not to be able to take them from her. He realized he can't. He has 4 kids I have 5. now we don't know what to do and he's leaving soon. I don't see how we're gonna work out now. legal suggestions or relationship suggestions. My kids fathers are in thier lives. We both decided we acted to quickly, couldn't wait to be together and now I think it'll be over because neither of us see a way

Answer 1

This question does not make sense....can you make the situation a little clearer?

Answer 2

this doesn't make sense.  Is he fighting for full-custody, or joint-custody.  Is she an unfit parent and he wants to take care of them?  Why is he leaving soon?  Why don't you guys wait to get married after he's resolved the child custody issues with his children's mother?

Answer 3

My best relationship suggestion is to start using some birth control. Jeez, are you guys setting up franchises??  

Answer 4

You've only been dating this guy a few months. You've not only got him involved in your kids lives, but your taking his five kids away from their MOTHER and into your home!

Have you even thought about your own children? Bringing a stranger into their home, making HIS kids YOUR priority?  How does this impact the kids lives?

Don't you realize that no matter how messed up she is, she is THEIR MOTHER. At least a few of them are going to be really angry at YOU for taking them from their mother. It's not dad they'll be mad at it's YOU! That's where "evil step-mothers" come from- kid's anger.

Let him go back to Maine and figure out how the h**l he's going to parent his kids. Unless she's violent kids need BOTH parents in their lives! You need to focus on your OWN kids and get some birth control!