Help Please. My GF just broke from her relationship which she had for 4 years?

Question

I was not into any relationship from last many years.

Now when I am talking to her, nothing bothers me. I mean I don't get bad thoughts of her previous relationship. (thoughts like she had s*x with him and they use to kiss and she was in love etc)

But when I am not talking to her, or I am alone and thinking, then her previous relationship stories hurts me a lot and they keep bothering me and bothering me.

God I dont know

How to take out of my mind all that she has told me about her X. And I don't get any ugly thoughts.

Answer 1

Ignore it, tune her out and she will eventualy know that u dont wanna hear about her ex but only her :)

Answer 2

It is generally difficult to forget a GF whom you have loved, but then in open societies, there are some things which happen very often, what you have mentioned in the bracket.

So, you will have to focuss on some thing batter than a broken relationship.

Answer 3

Being completely open is a wonderful trait.  At least she is not hiding anything from you.  You need to be mature and realize that she in no longer living in the past, and you should not be either.  She is with you, and she loves you.  Let it go.  Do not ruin a good relationship by being jealous and petty.  You might miss out on something wonderful.  Besides, you had past also, regardless of how long ago it was.  How would you feel if she held that against you.