Help! Should I be with a girl?

Question

Ok, so when I was younger I considered myself bi and made out with chicks and stuff but I didnt really feel anything.

now I have been with a guy for 4 years.

i have never dreamed of having s*x with him.

I only dream about having s*x with chicks.

And I rarely dream about being with chicks but I do. And have never dreamed of having s*x with a guy.

Chicks turn me on just by thinking about it.

how should I tell him this?

What should I do?

Does me dreaming these things mean something?

And no stupid answers!

Answer 1

Honestly most people in a relationship will know if something like that is going on. If that is the way you feel, you should tell him, it will either A) turn him on because hes a pervert teenager boy

or

B) He will say he understands, and he will still be waiting for you years from now.

Answer 2

try having s*x with him at lease 3 times a day try new positions etc... you just like girls  havent been with one in a long time so your mind is playing games with you all i got to say is i wish i had a g/f who dreams about sleeping with other females in it turns her on i would tell her go get a girls friend in let have 2 on 1 action but thats just me good luck    

Answer 3

I don't think you should be with a girl. It is not what God intended. God made man for woman and woman for man. My advice would be therefore to talk to a pastor about this and ask for some counselling.  

Answer 4

It depends. Even if you have no sexual feelings toward your boyfriend, do you still like/love him? It's obvious your orientation involves liking the same s*x, but now it has been taken to another level (sexual feelings)

I hate to categorize people with words like g*y, straight, or bi. I think you just like who you like.

Answer 5

can you say...threesome :P

Answer 6

listen to ur heart!(this isnt a stupid answer)

Answer 7

I believe God is trying to tell you that you have supposed to have a relationship with girls and not guys. God appears in mysterious ways, and this is one of them. Tell him that you are going to take a break and start going out with girls. He might be upset at first but what is more important is what is right for you! God Bless!

Answer 8

i dont really know if you are male or female, but it doesnt matter what you are. you need to do whatever feels natural for you, and what your heart tells you to. if you love the person you are with, no matter of their gender, you should be with that person, irregardless of what people think or say. if you are with someone, but you dont feel a spark when you are with them, or with anyone of their same s*x, then maybe you should rethink your whole orientation. take some time, think. dont make a decision on impulse, and dont live your life based on a lie or a mistake.