Help Someone please???

Question

I have got a birthday sleepover on Saturday,, I have invited a mate and to me it seems like she shes making excuses to not come at the biging of the hols, about the 10th august i asked her if she could coem then she said she cant cos shes got a mate ound all hols then she said she could then she hurt her foot and said she might not be able to and i just askd her again and she said no because shes going to her brothers, I am quite upset, but after she gave me a definte no, her mate said she really wanted to come cos my mate couldnt be bothered to talk. Is she just making excuses or do you think she did want to come??

Answer 1

it sounds like an excuse but who knows!x  

Answer 2

i think they r makin excuses

Answer 3

hey, i think you should just talk to your mate outright and just tell her that you would really like her to come but tell her that if she doesnt want to then she doesnt have to but it would be nice to see her, and see what she says and what her real reason is, explain that she has said to many differernt things to you for her not being able to go and it seems like she is just making excuses. If she doesnt come than you should let her then make the next move! :)

Answer 4

sounds like excuse after excuse but if shes your friend then you should go with what she says intill you no differant just find someone to replace her simple.

Answer 5

ASK HER OUTRIGHT!!!!

Answer 6

obviously she's not intersted to ***.,.

just find anoder to fit in her place

Answer 7

i think you should talk to your friend about it. it may be all the excuses were true, but it could be the other way too. good luck! :)

Answer 8

ask her again. say 'are you able to come to my sleepover or arent you?'

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Answer 9

well it sounds like shes making excuses but shes your friend just believe her