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I have been in a relationship now for 3 years. We have a 1 1/2 year old daughter who is the love of our life. Before I met my other half he was previously married for 5-6 years. He got married when he was 17 years old. He did not have a child or any attachments from that marriage so I always assumed that I would never have to deal with her. I was wrong. I do not have to deal with her one on one but she is still very much a part of his family(my family now). I started to become close with his sister b/c our daughters are only 3 months apart and we would always talk how we hoped that they would be close cousins. Every conversation I had with his sister she would never say anything nice about the ex wife but that she "still maintained a relationship with her and had room in her life for the both of us". I found out shortly after that everything I was telling her would be repeated straight to his ex wife or sometimes his mom. I made sure to cut ties with the sister quick, which is sad b/c that is my daughters only cousin. I have not talked to the sister in a year and it's very obvious that she doesn't want to talk to me.My husbands ex wife now has a child of her own and a new spouse. I was hoping that she would go away once she had that child but I was wrong again She is still very much apart of his family lives because instead of inviting US to family gatherings/functions/outings they invite her. My husband and his ex got divorced for a reason and that was b/c they didn't want to be in each other lives anymore so WHY WOULD HIS FAMILY CONTINUE TO SOCIALIZE WITH HER when all they ever said was negative things about her? AND WHY DOES SHE STILL WANT TO BE IN HIS FAMILY'S LIFE IF SHE HAS A NEW ONE OF HER OWN NOW? WE have distanced ourselves from his family because I think it is WRONG that they will not let go of his past/ex wife. I feel as though they our putting a strain on our relationship b/c it does cause fights between my husband and I. My husband has asked his family to cut ties with his ex but they said "you can't tell us who to be friends with". Who does this???Am I being insecure or do I have a justified point? Can any one give me some new advice on how to deal with this situation.
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