Help ??? This boy is being wayy too pushy?

Question

seriously

thank YOU GUYS SOOO MUCH

it really helped.. and it really gave me the courage to stand up for myself.

Answer 1

I don't like chicks like you, just do what the dude says and everything will be fine

Answer 2

tell him that you cant and you have a boyfriend or youre simply not interested. hate cocky guys.

Answer 3

tell him you have a bf

Answer 4

I have to say from experience, run. Men don't just freak out after talking a few times and then you don't call. They usually just go elsewhere. If he is like this now, what will happen if you guys are dating? He is already controlling you and you don't even realize it. Call him and tell him you are not interested now before it gets worse. And let people  around you know how he is acting. People are more crazy these days than ever and you can never!!! be to careful. GL

Answer 5

Sweetie, you don't have to hang out with anyone that you are uncomfortable with.  And you NEVER have to take that kind of abusive c**p from ANYONE, especially some guy you just met.  That is seriously weird, btw, that he would go off on you over a missed opportunity to just hang out.  My guess is that his ego was busted when you didn't show, because if he's as hot as you say, he's probably not used to being stood up.

Call him (don't text, that's cowardly), and just tell him, very simply, that you've been thinking about the way he yelled at you, and you've decided that you'd rather not hang out with him. If he starts to yell at you -- hang up and don't think about him again.

PS:  You might want to mention this to your mom.  If he gets nutty on you, you're going to need some help.

Answer 6

This guy is awful and controlling. He don't deserve a good answer. Break the date. Call him up and say "sorry but I don't appreciate your manners".

Answer 7

if you want to then go if you dont then be like **** you, you pervert dont call me anymore.

Answer 8

he is controlling and u need to get him away from u   sounds like ur right that he wants s*x and only that    so tell him no u don't want him to get control of u witch he already thinks he does so tell him no and get away from him

Answer 9

Well you said yes. so you just have to deal with it. If i was you I would stand him up again just to p**s him off even more and if he call yellling at you say I got you on speaker phone and everybody can hear you lol

Answer 10

Sounds to me that your life would be a lot easier if you got rid of the cell phone.

Answer 11

This is EXACTLY how my ex   acted with me ):

I broke up with him, and i dont regret it.

All that guy wants is s*x, and he could end up raping you in the end, so no matter how much  u like him, ignore hi'm.

trust me; you wont REGRET it (:

Answer 12

Don't hang out with him, don't answer his calls, don't talk to him, don't have anything to do with him.  You DO NOT have to put up with being yelled at by someone who is little more than a stranger to you.  You DO NOT owe him an explanation or anything else.  His behavior is abusive and scary and he will only get worse if you have further contact with him.  He is trying to manipulate you.  That's what abusers do.  Stand up for yourself, have self-respect, and never let any boy/man treat you like dirt for their own gratification.  You should not be "nice" to someone who is a abusive idiot.  His being "hot" does not mean that he is exempt from showing other people respect.

Answer 13

STOP TRYING TO BE NICE!!!  You could be putting yourself in danger. If you are old enough to be going out with guys you should be old enough to stand up for yourself. Stop responding to his calls and texts. Have your mom or dad answer for you and tell him to leave you alone. I mean it. You could be in danger. He sounds really scary.

Answer 14

didn't you just complain about someone texting you and lieing?

Answer 15

Just tell him the truth. Tell him that you didn't appreciate him calling and yelling at you like that, and that you don't think you guys should hang out after all, say your sorry, then hang up before he has a chance to say anything. If he calls you back, just don't answer. You don't need that kind of guy around and the best thing to do is get rid of him right off.

Answer 16

he sounds controlling you need to say no and leave him in the dust talk to your parents if he wont leave you alone

Answer 17

Just say you don't want to see him anymore

Answer 18

So you got yourself into this let me get this straight you said Yes AGAIN just because he's hot.

You got yourself in a mess end it now make an excuse and make a good one.

Answer 19

OMG

PLEASE DO NOT GO W/ HIM.

just bthe beginnig

send hima text that says u r not his daughter so he should really watch his mouth andf that u dont want to talk w/ him anymore

then change ur # or even better threaten (a harrassment sue)

Answer 20

RUN AWAY- he sounds like a freak- and if hes already trying to controll you when he doesnt even know you imagine how much worse it could get

Answer 21

make up something like "i cant im having a family event and i forgot until after you asked me ,i didnt want to tell you becuz you were so mad "

Answer 22

call him back and tell him that you cant because your busy with family problems haha