Help!!! What do I do?

Question

ok I have a 'friend' he's a guy and we've been friends for more than 3 years through a long distance relationship. He's always liked me and wanted to take it to the next step but I never thought it would work. I thought it was silly so two girlfriends after he still wants me but I tell him it is silly. Now he has a serious girlfriend who he travels with (just thought I should mention it lol) and totally stopped calling me and when I call he can't talk because he is "busy" I think it's his gf and things between us have gotten cold. I think I want him back as a friend or maybe even something more meaningful. What do I do? Where do I stand? I'm not going to throw myself at him but we were such great friends it tears my heart that he doesn't even want to know how I'm doing!!!

Answer 1

well first of all you had your chance to be somthing more than a friend for 3 years, but i understand how once somthings gone, kinda dont notice anything untill its acually gone.

Im not really sure if you have like "seen" him at all? maybe do somthing with him, visit, see if he still likes you a lot. and just try and make sure he knows that you want him back, but dont make it look like ur trying to steal him.

Answer 2

sounds like he calls you when your convienent for him

Answer 3

leave him alone.

Answer 4

well he liked you and you never liked him back, that is hard to take and he prob. felt really rejected.

Now he has someone who wants him.

for now, leave him alone and be happy for him,

you could also write an e-mail telling him about the friend part.

But dont f things up in his life any more by telling him you MIGHT want to be with him now. thats not going to help anyone because you live far away.

it seems like you onlly want him now that you cant have him, not because you actually want him.  you just liked the attention.

if you guys are ment to be friends, he will eventually come around.

It could also be his new gf not wanting him to talk with you, but who knows

Answer 5

Just stand one step back where you are now. Try to convince him, if you really want him.

I hope you can.

Answer 6

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