Help about s*x - virgins?

Question

me and my gf want to have s*x.but we are afraid of the consequences.we donot know what happens aftr 1st s*x.we both are virgin.what changes are dere in da daily routine of a girls life nd boys too.heard that menstrual period stops for a while...is it so????i shall be using a condom.but how many to use.does it feel painful to a gurl nd a boy??how many days will it take to overcome the pain.will there be a blood flow during 1stsex??can dis flow be controlled?how many contraceptive pills i shud give her???can the gurl workout normally the very next day or shll she take some some time to recover froam da pain??

please answer me dese qs...its really urgetn...

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Answer 1

well u should definetely use a condom and get the orange flavored kind ur girlfriend will appreciate that and just try it it feels wonderful!!! GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 2

if you are going to have s*x for the first time just make sure you are safe

like condoms and birth control pills etc.

and when you have s*x for the first time it ight hurt the girl a little bit a firth, but it depends on the girl

sometimes her whole body will ache the next day. but it will go away the next dayy

Answer 3

s*x for the first time isnt that bad. you just have to go slow and make it very relaxed or it will be EXTREMELY PAINFULL. use a condom. nothing reallly changes, you just might regret it.

the girl can usually do everything normal, but if it was a little rough, there might be some pain, and blood spotting. the blood spotting does not mean she has her period, it just means somthing tore in her vag. it'll get better with in a day.

good luck....

Answer 4

first off. Awe! I was like this too when I was 17 and well let me tell you it was great! I think that the firts time was the best time for me! lol it lasted for like 5 hours lol. now because were so busy (were married) we're lucky if we get 15 min lol!

Anywho I'm getting off the subject kinda. The first time was great and no she wont stop her period unless she gets pregnant. I would use 1 condom and some lube, like k-y jelly or something like that. it is also know that k-y jelly can kill sperm so she wont get pregnant.

So heres what you'll need.

condoms

Lube

something to drink afterwards. Its exhausting but fun at the same time!

And here is what she'll need

Start going on birth control (just in case the condom breaks)

You!

In the end you'll want to clean it up because if you just let all that sweat and all of your natural juices sit there you could get infections so clean up after yourselves and you two will be just fine!

Have fun and eventually tell the folks what you've done k! Well when your felling comfortable with it!

~Shasta~

Answer 5

here this site will help you with birth control:

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-...

i say use a spermiced condom, and your gf on ith control ( pill, patch, or shot) you learn aout all of them at that site

Answer 6

if your asking, and don't know the consequences, you shouldnt even think of having s*x.

Answer 7

Not all girls bleed or have pain the first time they have s*x, even if they are a virgin.  Have a towel handy in case she bleeds. It isn't always a lot.  The hymen could be already gone due to other physical activities.  However the v****a is like a muscular tube that has been unused.  So penetration can cause pain.  It's normal to be 'sore' for a few days after as it's been an unused muscle.  So she can still work out after, if her other muscles aren't sore also - like her legs.

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Always use birth control /condom- it's not about how many pills you give her - she's only supposed to take one a day, but for them to be effective she has to follow the directions from the doctor, so if she's hasn't been on them very long, make sure you use a condom.  You use one condom at a time, each time you have s*x.  I'm not sure you are ready to have s*x.

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The menstrual period only stops if she gets pregnant.

Answer 8

No, the menstrual period will not stop - but if she is stressed about the consequences there is a good chance she may delay her the onset of her period.

Only use one condom per session. In other words, if you have s*x three times in one day - use three different condoms. Never re-use a condom and never "double up", as that may cause them to break.

There may be blood the first time, depending on if she has already broken the hymen through other activities. This flow cannot be controlled.

And yes, it will most likely be painful to the girl, but not with the boy. She can work normally the next day.

YOU should not give her ANY contraceptive pills. If she is already on birth control, she should continue to take them regularly. If she is not, and you used a condom properly, you should be fine.

If there is an accident, such as the condom breaking, she can get Plan B (Emergency Contraception) from any drug store.

Answer 9

Don't have premarital s*x.

Answer 10

s*x can be painful for the girl the first few times they have s*x.  There will be blood the 1st time and maybe a lil the 2nd time.  As long as your wearing a condom you should be good.  Her period will only stop if she gets pregnant.  Make sure you read the directions on the condom wrapper to make sure your puttin it on right so it will be the most effective.  Usually the girl is a lil sore after but it shouldn't stop her from working out or doing anythin she usually does.

Answer 11

Not everyone bleeds and if they do it isn't a lot.

unless she's pregnant her period will be normal.

and you can't give her contraceptive pill the doctor has to.

The pain doesn't last for weeks, it hurts at the time and then that's it.

Answer 12

you sound way to young

you cant even speak in proper sentences

but to try and answer your questions.

there should'nt be a change in daily life. why would there be?

the only time her period should stop is if she's pregnant

use ONE condom at a time. if you use more then one at once your run the risk of friction between condoms and they WILL break.

yes it will be painful for her if she's not ready, wet, and relaxed.

she may be sore for a few days but not bad.

there may be some blood but there should only a be a few drops that is if her hymen isnt already broken.

you need to be taking birth control pills once a day for a month before your protected by birth control. cuz it takes 1-3 months for a womens body to be used to the birth control pill. and it is not healthy to have more then one birth control pill at once. it messes with her hormones and makes her sick.

yes she can workout normally

but i suggest you go to school and focus on school rather then having s*x

because from the sounds of it you will have a baby within the next year

which brings me to my next point

no matter how safe you are you always run the risk of pregnancy. so when you have s*x your saying your ready for a child.

but since you said your afraid of the consequences that just shows your not ready.

if your ready then you wouldn't be afraid of the consequences because you'd know how to properly protect yourself and deal with it if it happens

such as pregnancy or std's