Help after divorce with high school sweetheart?

Question

I have been divorced for 2 years, dating my high school sweetheart since my breakup....he is the love of my life, however I have a few doubts as far as behaviour and habits....concerned and wondering, is it paranoia or what.....all I thought I wanted is to get married, now not sure...anyone out there with similar situation/concern? I do consider myself very lucky to have the original man of my dreams...just trying real hard to make it kosher now.....

Answer 1

My answer to that is, I married my middle school sweetheart, he was my first, he was my dream.  he was my first everything,: kiss, s*x, son, marriage, EVERYTHING. i been with him a total of nine years, Im twenty none (of course it was on and WAY off!) but the down side, is is habits and behavior, (sooooooooo immature) NO JOB, NO AMBITION, NOTHING!!!, and he cheated a few times, we just broke up. HE CRIES LONG TEARS everyday, it hurts but i gotta be strong......your situation:, make sure he loves you, not just with his mouth, make sure he can take care of himself, so that he can take care of you and yours, LOVE is very powerful, it can make a person do miracles, if they wont drop nasty habits that hurt you and them, LOVE in them towards you, isnt that strong, AND it would not get better. Marriage Today is different from marriage back then, alot of us girls follow there hearts too much but they think later, and these males, its hard to find a hardworking ambitious male, they havin too much fun.       BY the way im 20  

Answer 2

As long as you are not with a man named Dan, then we both aren't in love with the same High School Sweetheart! LOL

Go for it, quit doubting!  he is not the same as he was back then, but then again neither are you.  Situations change us a little.  The fact that you are still in love with him proves he has not changed enough to make you fall out of love with him.

You will be sorry if you let the personality change effect what you could have with him.  MARRY him and make it official.  There is something there that has not let you go for years and it's still there or else you would have been gone!!  MARRY HIM!!!!

Answer 3

Man, with love there are no doubts.