Help and advice..?

Question

Me and my boyfriend slit up 9 weeks ago, since then i have found out i was pregnant, he was wierd about it and said he would only support me if i had an abortion, things have been wierd because i think he just wants me out of his life, i think i confused him because i kept changing my mind bout my descion but. =/. He said he would support me through, a week ago i had a misscarriage im abslotuly devatated i cant eat,sleep,walk or anything i text him a couple of days ago to tell him and he wont talk, its not because hes upset about it because hes 24/7 out with his friends, in pubs, egnoring me, driving past me today and not ackowleding me, i jsut want him to realise i need his comfort right now, and nothing i say does, his parents agree with him and say its his choice, i cant find a way to move on or to get through this, i just want him to realise i need him right now

Answer 1

Maybe you should rely on someone else, this guy probably isn't going to be there for you and he sounds like a prat. Go to a parent/ friend who will give you the sulpport you need. I will pray for you and I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage:(

Answer 2

well first of all, all this sounds terrible an' im  sorry to hear that.

the other thing is that you really have to take care of what u do. if you decided to be with this guy you should have known what type of person he was. to be honest he doesnt sound like the right person for you or any other girl as he wont even talk to you, when you just had a miscarriage, i think that you did everything you could to make him understand how important his comfort is for you right now.  since you had a miscarriage and you wont have the baby anymore, it saves you from having to marry him or anyhting like that. honeslty forget about him. and his parents too, the dont seem to realise either. now that theres no baby connecting you guys get away from him and find ourself another boyfriend when you start to feel better.