Help.. boy problems?

Question

i met this lad at a party and we were flirting with each other and i began to really like him and after the party he was texting me saying he loved me and then a few days later i found out he had a gf and i stopped talking to him..

and then he text me saying he doesnt know why he is going out with her because he likes me but he kept goingback out with her and messing me about and now he is going out with this girl but he is still texting me saying he loves me and i love him back but ijust dont know what to do i just cant get over him..

please help xx

Answer 1

I think he is a player?

Answer 2

Yeah you have the same problem his other g/f has.He tells her ALL the same  things he tells you,like "I love you, you are special,I want us to be together forever,I want you YES YOU to have my babies! and last but not least I don't know WHY I am going out with her(you)".I can guess why he is going out with her .......s*x.

She doesn't know what to do either because she loves him and cannot let go either.

Guess the 2 of you will have to share him with each other until he adds more girls to the group you have now.Good luck with avoiding pregnancy and STDS.By the way he doesn't know you enough to say I love you and you are in love with acheater?Cheaters are attractive to you?You have poor taste in guys,sorry.

Answer 3

He knows very well why he keeps going back to his gf, and if you'll give it an honest moment's thought you'll know why too.  I think he is playing you on the side.  My advice:  don't play second fiddle to anyone, not for this guy or any guy.  If he doesn't "love" you enough to walk away from his gf, then I question that he loves you at all.

I don't mean to sound harsh, but think about what is really happening here, instead of what you'd like it to mean.

Answer 4

He will eventually break up with her or Cheat on his Gf with you.

I say its a bad idea for stealing someone's Bf

He said I love you a bit too quick eh?

Answer 5

How can you love someone who's going out with another girl? He's the player type. A player doesn't care about you. He will just use you for what he wants and then leave you. You deserve so much better than that. I can't believe you don't see right through his antics. You need to stop all contact with him. Don't call or test him and don't email him.