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Question

okay I'm 14 and i cut myself while i use to but i stopped sense my cosin has been helping me. my mom sense the cuts but i told her that it was something else. people keep on saying that i need help but i don't know, sense i stopped cutting I'm staring to think of suicide. I'm scared to tell my mom i need help so i just talk my cosin i don't know what to do right now? should i tell my mom or should i just keep talking to my cosin? is he doing the right think by not telling anyone?????he doesn't know the whole story to understand why i ned help maybe he says i don't need it, do you think hes right???? he says that he loves me and he doesn't want me to die...

Answer 1

I'mm sure,your cousin does love you, but baby girl you need help. do you have a school councelor, if not you need to have a heart  to  heart with your mom.please,there is help.dont listen to your cousin. my daughter was a cutter, it took awhile, but  she got through it. shes 25 and i have 2 beautiful grand babies. they tried alot of different meds. but it all worked out. there are suicide hot lines, those folks know what you are going through. please get help.1-800-273-talk or go to      suicidehotlines.com  your in my thoughts.

Answer 2

I think you should tell your mom. By not telling anybody about it, makes you feel alone and unloved. Don't commit suicide. Get help. It'll get better. Don't throw your life away.....I used to think of suicide all the time but I got help. Now I'm all happy and optimistic.  

Answer 3

hey.

I would  tell your mom. If you are not comfortable with telling your mom, then I would find an adult in which you feel comfortable.  I do not think your cousin is right or wrong. What i do think is that your thoughts of suicide and cutting do need professional attention. So I feel that you should tell someone TODAY. Don't be scared. You are going to be okay. I think by talking to someone it will help release some of the things that you try to release by cutting.

Your whole like is ahead of you!  You are a beautiful. Go for life. I'm 36 and I am glad that when i tried to commit suicide when i was 16...that it did not work! I love life.

peace

Answer 4

It's ok. Everything will be all right. You don't have to tell your mother but what you do have to do is go to the hospital and tell them that you've been thinking of suicide. They'll take good care of you don't worry. If you can't get to the hospital, call 911.  

Answer 5

Cutting is a symptom of some pretty serious mental health issues.  I think your cousin might enjoy being your only source of support and is perhaps not really thinking about what might be the best thing for you.  You definitely need to tell an adult and get some counseling.  Whatever underlying issue you have that made you start cutting will probably manifest itself in other ways as you get older - like drug and alcohol abuse.  Take advantage of the fact that as a minor others will step in and help you solve your problems.  It's not so much the case as you get older.

Answer 6

It's good that you're trying to seek help here but honestly this is probably the last place.. Your cousin is not telling anyone because you trust him but at the same time he's doing the wrong thing. Tell your mum, she loves you, you can get better help than yahoo answers in this case.

Oh, and it's spelt "since" not "sense".

Honestly, tell your mum, she's not gonna be angry!

Hope things work out

Good Luck

Answer 7

honey i can relate to u so much im also i cutter well was and ur only thinking of suiside as another way to cope but im telling u need to tell u cousin that if it gets worse he needs to tell some one this is not a joke tell ur mom what ur feeling and y if u everwant to talk about this my email is    [e-mail]      i am also planning on creating a website for teens like us please keep in contact i can try to help  

Answer 8

Hello Again,

You know you can talk to me if you want, i'm still here for you if you need me.

Answer 9

You need to tell your mom. Asap!

Your cousin isn't exactly helping you by not telling anyone, but he's trying to be faithful to you, and his word.