Help! ever since i got with him all i do is eat!?

Question

it's kind of weird we have been dating for 2 years already. When i got with him i wasn't all skiny but i was chubby but not all overly chubby and since i've been with him ive gained 47 pounds! idk wat to do he is not fat but he likes to eat alot and he's changed my eating habbits and all i wanna do is eat now and i have no idea how to change this. I've talked to him about it and hes all like i don't care if your fat or skinny i still love you. I don't like being fat but i hate looking at myself because i feel ugly. . . how can i make this stop?

Answer 1

I know exactly how you feel. I have been with my husband for almost 5 years now ( dating for 4 and a half, married for almost 4 months). When I started dating him I was happy with my weight. Not skinny but healthy. In the time we have been together I have gained around 55 lbs. And my problem is exactly the same as yours... I eat what he eats. I have tried dieting but he gets angry and says that he hates sitting there eating a delicious meal when he knows that I am hungry. So I am here to tell you right now that you can try all you want but without support from him you will more than likely have problems reaching your goals. Sit down and talk to him. Let him know that while he may still love you and that you love him for feeling that way about you, you are not happy with yourself and would like him to help you become happier. Even if he is not overweight everyone can afford to eat better in their life. So maybe he will start eating healthier food with you. But even if he does this, you will not see many results if you continue to eat like a man. So eat what he eats, but half the portion. There's my advice... I think I'll take it. ;) Good luck.  

Answer 2

i think  you are in the wrong section lol but anyway you need to start eating healthy and not cave into his eating habits even though he loves you regardless, you need to make yourself happy and if you dont like the way you are then you need a change sweety. talk to him and tell him that you wanna eat better and not as much as he likes to and ask him for support to help you when you wanna give up. but dont give up and you can do it.  good luck  

Answer 3

i thought you were talking about your child lol. youre in a wrong section...

Answer 4

thats sweet of him to say that he doesnt care about how you look, thats true love right there. but maybe when you go and eat with him, know that you dont always have to match his portions. if it really worries you that much, then go on a work out plan, join a club and maybe pick up a sport. trainers are available and will take your request to get fit seriously.

goodluck, cheers