Help: got myself into a bad situation!?

Question

I realize it is a stupid idea to have done this in the first place, but now there is a guy threatening to tell everyone that I am a s**t because of what I said online and about men revealing themselves in pictures. He is sadistically wanting to ruin my first year in grad school. What do I do to save myself at this point? What should I say? I am scared that my career and education will be ruined!!! I have tried to tell him he was rude and should not even spread those lies, but he just is taunting me more

Answer 1

Confide the information with your closest friend or boyfriend like someone who you can trust your life with. If you don't have one, then someone close to that. He is probably some perv who wants to see some skin from you.

Don't go to the police or report it right now because this could just get brushed to the side. Bringing it up to the officials can make things worse by letting the public know of what you do online and what he did. You will surely get expelled from the school if you bring bad publicity to it. Like Rebecca Manns from Louisville, she got expelled because she brought bad media attention. Duke LAX players who got kicked out of school is another example.

If he does tell what you do with others to his friends, they will just get a good laugh and nothing will happen. I wouldn't worry, and this guy just sounds like he is doing empty threats. Officials will only take interest if it is life threatening. If you go to the police, they might just laugh at you and call you a s**t too. Police are pigs.

Answer 2

He is obviously trying to get in your pants. DO not give in to his unjust Mesopotamian desires. Show him one boob. Just one.  

Answer 3

Confide in a friend and call the Police.  Get a restraining order if you have to.

If you have his full name get a background check also.

Answer 4

Sooooo basically, you are online committing x*x acts and just got caught by someone you know. You are scared that your first year in grad school is ruined by having this reputation. Everyone might already know about this in your program by now since it's not like college of twenty thousand people. I know my grad program has 30 people in it. I suggest you stay low for the first year and not do anything social with people. If you put yourself out there, you will get hurt by how people talk behind your back calling you a $lut. There are a lot program social events like BBQs, wine tasting, and class parties, but I suggest you avoid those events and hope that people forget about you. That is the only way to push away the reputation because you want them to forget what they heard. If you are around them, you will remind them of your story. People easily forget things, so stay low, attend classes, study, and minimize human contact at school. I think people will forget after this semester. Not to worry! Nothing bad will happen!

Answer 5

No what is that talk of restraining orders...he's probably teasing you and is interested ...so you wrote something who cares you know it was a joke. my advice is to let him know that he is jealous and is going to get no where near your goods. What do s***s do? **** so if your not s******g him tell him and his 2 in to go whack off!!

Answer 6

Is your boyfriend not giving you enough attention? You got no boyfriend? Get your ex cause it's safer than random guys online and you wouldn't be called a s**t for it cause you ain't adding numbers to that list of guys you slept with. Don't do S****y thing hun, go call up your ex if you ain't got no boyfriend, and he will keep you away from those people. If you have a boyfriend, tell him to go beat him up. They suppose to do that cause he is suppose to protect you from a$$holes.  

Answer 7

If it gets out of hand and you seriously think he is trying to ruin your career that is illegal and could be taken as harassment. You should remind him of that.