Help having suicidal thoughts??

Question

i'm 14 and i think i might suffer from depression i dont want to live anymore, theres just no way out. i feel so trapped and lonely no one knows what it feels like to be in a room full of people yet feel so alone like no one understands you your on a little island of your own surrounded in a brick wall of problems that keeps on getting higher.

Answer 1

Life is an adventure, full of pain. pain is very common in life

remember, when we die we wont feel pain anymore, so take pain as a privilage. Something we must be gratefull for

well, thats just one way of looking at it

but better advice is you dont know what the next day, or week will bring. Keep waiting for life to change

Answer 2

I know how it feels

It's more common than you would think

Talk to other depressed people, or if you feel comfortable doing so, your doctor

This is only a tiny part of life. You can have a great future, don't give up

*hug*

Answer 3

Everyone knows what it feels like to be in a room or area full of people yet feel alone with their problems.  A lot of people know what its like to suffer from depression.  A lot of people know what its like to feel lonely.

You are not alone.

Answer 4

if your in school get into clubs or be more involved in school activities

make new friends

don't hurt yourself

because your lucky to be alive

Answer 5

Having suicidal thoughts are symptoms of many things. In most cases this problem needs to be diagnosed. My cousin tried killing herself twice. Come to find out she had bipolar disorder. The best way to get past this is to see a doctor and see if there is further problems. Besides we need you around.

Answer 6

when i was about you age i felt the same way what i suggest is getting a pet of some sort like a dog it really help knowing this little fuzzy animal completely relies on you and your its entire world knowing something you love needs you will really help

Answer 7

I know EXACTLY what that is like. I live it every day. First, you have to get help now !! Tell your parents or guardian that you feel this way. Your depression can be helped. DO NOT throw your life away because you don't feel good. You can get better but you have to ask for it ( help) right now. Please go tell an adult. I love you. Good luck.

Answer 8

you could talk to some one but if not thae best way is to sort one thing out at a time and try to keep up i guess or you could see a counsler

Answer 9

join the club. most people, believe it or not, have been there. some more than once. the trick is, realize that life is not that serious. once you realize it's just a game and you can play however you want. it should all fall into place.

Answer 10

If you need someone to listen to you and talk e-mail me. You are at a very emotional age, and part of this times is depression. You could try and do what so many do and that is seat down every day and write a diary to just vent out. I know that talking to the parents sometimes is very hard, but you would be surprise how good it will feel just to tell someone. I know what it feels like and I found a way of releasing all my sorrows, I became and artist and trough my art, I channeled my pain. I had no reasons to be depressed, I have to say, I had it all, a family, a brother, a sister, and lived in a dreamy place, and still found my self thinking that life was not worth living.  Soooooo one day I told my dad and he told me that what every I was feeling I needed to put it on a canvas, a photo, or just a plain piece of paper. The time it took me to write, helped me get my demons out, and today I get to do what I love the most and live from it. Like I said , you need to talk to someone, but if you do not have confidence in any around you, telling a complete stranger some times helps. I am here if you like...........At this time I like to say that there is a reason why you are here today, find it...........Good luck

Answer 11

I'm also 14, my counselor advised me to follow my passions and if they didn't help try reading to get my mind off of life and that's what I've done I started reading more, my grades increased, my mom wasn't always dissapointed in me, and slowly and gradualy I became a happier person, sometimes I still slip into that dark, lonly, hollow place, but for the most part I'm happy. So maybe you should try it, it's what I advised to all my suicidal friends as well and since they started reading, or doing sports, or whatever they really wanted to do they've been happier and have had fewier suicdal thoughts and maybe it'll work for you and if it dosn't e-mail me.

     RitaN_94@yahoo

Good Luck

Answer 12

lil Miss : )

I wish I could give you a GREAT BIG HUG!!!  Your not alone.  I am 31 and suffer from depression and have those same feelings.  But life actually CAN be good.  My Neice committed suicide in March.  I always wonder why she didn't come to me or I didn't notice it..You are a blessing and are LOVED.  Talk to someone!!  If you don't feel you can talk to anyone at home talk to someone at school like a counceler or call a hotline..you will get over your problems..time makes all the difference.  your friend LS

Answer 13

i've gone through depression, n i kno that even tho it doesn't really seem lyk it right now u can pull thru without havn 2 resort 2 medication or suicide or ne other easy way out. u need 2 make sure u kno wat exactly is bothering u. i suggest therapy. i'm not tryna b sarcastic or insult u n ne way, but therapy, or even jus talking 2 someone just kind of naturally analytical can help u figure out wat tha root of tha problem might b n u can start to work on seperating urself from it or solving it. and at the same time, it's always easiest 2 jus laty in bed all day n think about being depressed, but try 2 get out, n not jus get out, but socialize. of course there's always the fear of losing it in front of a crowd, n if ur feeling really unstable, u probably should stay n, but if u have days where ur not feeling lyk u just wanna cry non-stop, being around people is a good way 2 destract u from ur problems. jus get around a group of close friends. the closer u are 2 the people ur around, the more they'll include u n conversation n try 2 keep u from feeling bad. n if u don't have friends ur really close 2 family helps 2.i'm not sayn itll b an easy task, cuz u gotta find that strength within urself 2 get over it, but once u do u'll b happy 2 c ur old self again n feel accomplished. u might still have ur dog days tho. but takn pills will jus take control of ur life. n suicide will jus end ur lyf when it could all work out eventually. but getting out of that bad place by urself is a great accomplishment

Answer 14

im 21 & i have ur problem but what keep me 2gather is my faith of God & that some day i will be really ok & i dont want 2 miss that day by being dead!! ;) dont give up some day all ur misery will disappear just have faith

Answer 15

well im 14 too

all u need is a nyc frnd hu can understand u....well i guess evrybody faces dis tym in lyf ......i feel lik leving my house !

bt i guess if u work on ur social lyf things may improve !

Answer 16

If you are concerned, you may want to talk to a counselor/ therapist. I am actually one and I'm thinking it may be a good outlet to just have someone who supports you and will make efforts to understand.. i usually divide depression into two things.. A) situational  or B) non-situational.. (A) means that something is going on in your life (fighting with family, trouble in school, broke up with someone, etc)... B is when there really isn't something occurring, but you still feel just "blah".. if you have B, medication might be helpful.. If A, then you should think about talking to someone.. hopefully you have a good support network (friends, family, even older adults or teachers or maybe church?) either way.. good luck.. i guess i'll leave you with this.. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem regardless if it is A or B.. do things that make you feel better and by all means, talk to someone so you have a good way of coping.

Answer 17

I know the feelings well.  You need to talk to an adult and someone you trust.  It doesnt need to be your parents but thats not a bad choice.  

You need to relax and dont let yourself get overwhelmed.  But when you start having these thoughts try this. Automatically start thinking what is great about you.  Actually make out a list of things you like about yourself.  Talk to some of your friends and ask them what they like about you. It can be stupid things like you can squirt milk through your eye. It doesnt matter what it is just as long as you have something to make you think "im ok and ill be ok".

But please talk to an adult and hopefully they can help you get some professional help.  there are mood stabilizers which might help.

Trust me i know how you feel and i get these feelings all of the time.  Sometimes i scream at God why was i born if my life was going to be this?  Let your frustrations get out.

Answer 18

I had those thoughts myself.

There is no single action that helps depressed people.  Everyone handles it in a different way.

Some to it passively, like listening to music, watching videos, hearing others talk.

Some do it actively, like reading books, doing sports, talking to others.

Some use it as an excuse to do crazy things, while some just stay in their room and do nothing.

You need to find it out yourself.  Don't expect to get healed instantly.  It will take years to have true strong self-confidence again, but nobody can guarantee you that it is going to happen.