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Question

To start things off I was wondering if having a miscarriage would change the way you always feel before you come on your period? I always feel crampy at least 3 days before it starts and my next period should be due in a few days and I feel nothing of PMS except fatigue that I am hoping is due to pregnancy. Next thing is that I have read that the "average" luteal phase is 14 days. Mine is almost always 20 or so b/c my cycle is around 32-34 days. Now I am in cycle day 30/my last period was July 13-17 and my ovulation peek was 29-31 (which was cycle day 17-19). My partner and I had s*x plenty to get pregnant..

I took a /- E.P.T test this morning knowing it was early on and it was negative.. I am not expecting my period until around the 13-15. All though I am 13 DPO can the test be giving me a false negative because my period is not due AND b/c my luteal phase is longer? When I was pregnant last time I tested positive at 21DPO and was 2 days late to my period. According to my 32 day cycle my period is due in a few days but I don't feel crampy like I always do before I start like I stated above..

So I am wondering if you all think I tested to early? 13 DPO sounds like its far enough then I thought well my luteal phase is pretty long and my period isn't due.

Any advice -or- input would be great. Also I would love to hear of your false negative stories!

Thanks to all and any who answer =p

-Becky

Answer 1

I had a long 35 day cycle with my daughter. I had a 35 day cycle and tested at 28. Then I tested at 35. Both negative and AF showed. Next cycle I tested at 28 and neg, tested again at 35 and got that BFP. I would go ahead and wait as close to 35 days as you can stand before you test again.

Answer 2

I would say to test a again in a week or so. I just had a miscarrage and this is the first time I got a posite test so early usually when I got to the doctor I'm already 7-8 weeks preganant this time i was told that I was only 5weeks by the size of the pregnacy so go figure.

Answer 3

I ordered a bunch of tests on early-pregnancy-tests.com and they were really cheap so you can afford to test daily if you want.  Or the Dollar Tree ones are affordable as well.

best of luck!!! :)

If we both get our positives this month we'll be due around the same time. :)