Help help help !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i m depressed

Question

hey guys,

i live in Punjab in INdia. but i m very much depressed . i dont wanna stay here i wanna go US or other western countries . i min 10th grade . i hate living here ..... i feel bad. i m from a middle-class family. i have to cycle to my three tuitions a day , then i dont get any time to study or revise . when i dont study i feel very bad . my frnds have vehicles and all that. i dont wanna put any pressure on my parents. how should i raise my moral thinking . how can i overcome these tensions............. my parents are not in favour of having much cloths........ i feel inferior.plzzz help

Answer 1

U R FEELING BAD BECAUSE U HAVE A VERY ROUTINE LIFE GOING SCHOOL THEN TUITIONS ETC ETC WHY DONT U DISCUSS UR PROBLEM WITH UR PARENTS IF NOT UR BRO OR SIS MAY BE THEY CAN HELP U IF U FEEL U R DOING BETTER IN UR ACDEMICS BY TAKING THESE TUITIONS THEN GO AHEAD IF UR FEELING THAT U R DOING NO BETTER BY TAKING TUITIONS THEN TRY TO CONVINCE UR PARENTS THAT AFTER GOING TO 3 TUITIONS U HARDLY GET TIME TO REVISE BUT IF U ONLY TAKE TUITIONS WHICH R NECESSARY LIKE MATHS THEN U WILL GET TIME TO STUDY AND U CAN STUDY AT HOME AND GET HELP FROM UR FRIENDS BY DOING GROUP STUDY AND CONVINCE UR MOM AND DAD THAT THY CAN KEEP A WATCH AT U AND UR FRIENDS DURING THEIR GROUP STUDIES,HOPE THIS HELPS U

Answer 2

this might sound like a broken record, but do stuff you like.  do your hobby, and if you don't have one, get one.  if you have friends, be with them.  if you don't have friends, your hobby will eventually lead you to new friends.

Answer 3

study very very very hard...apply to colleges in the u.s...so wen u get out of high school u can come to school in the u.s...i know its seems like a long time 2 wait...but hang in there..study hard...and apply 2 colleges in the us

Answer 4

Hi, Bro, I think this will help you not only for this matter but remember it for entire life - http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 5

Run around and scream scream scream.

I live in the middle of nowhere, and the last time I got clothes was my Birthday, and all I got was 2 shirt I hated and a pair of socks.

And run around.

It feels nice.

Answer 6

Only you determine how you feel. Only you decide if you are inferior. Only you can decide whether monetary items are important.  Be thankful you are not living in poverty. Invest in your future and quit feeling sorry for yourself.  

Answer 7

Dear Friend,

I can understand your situation. I have gone through the same as you. After 10th i started working and while working i have completed my graduation. Helped financially to family to and paid my own fees. That was very hard time but right now am an HR executive in Hyderabad.

My suggestion to you is to continue your studies under your parents guidance/elders. what do you do after going to US? and how do you go, on what basis? VISA is not a movie take to issue by the embassy , it takes lot of formalities and need a reason to go.

Life is not so easy. Every minute take it as a challenge and drive. Do your best karma and expect the goal in time. I don’t say leave to the god.

Just fight fight and fight.

Dont get dipressed. welcome everything and accept it for good reason.

Best of luck

Answer 8

well i m also from punjab {phagwara} & wat about u.Well meri v same situation si k meri friends kol v scooty hai bla bla par hun mein US vich haan Eithe aa k bahut feel hunda hai k India vich hi thik si

Tusi apni padai nu dheko .Koi gall i kisi cheez di tension na lavo.

Rabb jo v karda hai saade bhale layi hi krda hai

take care

bye

& nice to meet u punjaabi

SATSHRI AKAAL  

Answer 9

if u wanna go to U.S

first u have to complete ur study in india(high school)..there is no other way

then take a  TOEFL exam  

send ur score to the US colleges

and eventually they will accept u..depends how u did in ur exam

u will get a student visa

its not easy as it sounds but like u already know tht

everything in life is hard

:)

chear up

if u try u can do it