Help help please.?

Question

My daughter Is going to seventh grade.

She is growing and getting older.

My little baby. I told her not to get a boyfriend till

she was in High school .But Usually someone asked her out

by 6th grade, but she said personality no. I'm afraid she will

refuse what I said and get a boyfriend like her other trouble

maker friends. Is it okay for her to have a boyfriend by the time

of middle school? Is it normal? but, she isn't like those other girls who go really ahead of them self and end up having s*x.

No, She is very calm and good in school. So.. I don't literally know. Help?

Answer 1

i told my daughter the same thing when she went to middle school,but yes when they are in middle school it is very normal for them to say they have a boyfriend,but you must look at it as i did she can have a school boyfriend but thats as far as i would let it go,yes she might get frustrated with you once in a while but its okay thats normal too.i just want to let you know that you should always listen to what she is saying to you and try and be open minded and understanding of her after all we have all been there.your relationship with her will be wonderful if she thinks you are letting her have a say.my relationship with my daughter is wonderful and she is 18 years old now.you will have a beautiful relationship with her.

Answer 2

It is good for kids to wait until they are older and more responsible enough to take on a relationship. Notice the word kids. She is just a child, a child should not have a relationship. It is good to have friends of the opposite s*x but seeing as she is so young it would be best for her to stay away from having a boyfriend. Boyfriends will just bring her extra drama that could have easily been avoided.

Answer 3

My daughter is only 10 so I don;t know if I'm really qualified to answer, but I told my daughter that she will not be dating until she is 16 and even then it will be closely supervised. There is no reason for a child to have a romantic relationship. That is my opinion right now, but my princess is still very little, it may change. So many children these days are sexually active and even good girls make bad choices in difficult situations. I don't want my baby, or yours, to be that good girl who ends up in trouble just because the wanted to be accepted or the thought that they were in love.

Answer 4

yes

Answer 5

hey don't worry about it its normal for kids in middle school to have girlfriends

relationships are generally not really serious until high school anyway (even though they think they are)

if she goes out with a guy he'll probably just call her at night and talk to her a lot.  they won't end up doing anything really (my friends always would go out in middle school and they usually never even kissed)

so, i'd say that youve got nothing to worry about.

especially since its starting summer!

Answer 6

JUST A WORD OF ADVICE MY MOM USED TO THINK I WASN'T LIKE THOSE OTHER GIRLS....I GOT GOOD GRADES I  OVERALL WAS  A  GOOD TEENAGER....BUT OF COURSE BOYS ONLY CARE ABOUT ONE THING AND THEY WILL GET THEIR WAY...BECAUSE OF COURSE THEY SAY WELL IF YOU LOVE ME....AND OF COURSE US THINKING WE KNOW EVERYTHING AND WE DO LOVE THEM WE GIVE IN....ALL I AM SAYING IS I DON'T THINK IT IS BAD TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND IN MIDDLE SCHOOL AS LONG AS YOU KNOW WHERE SHE IS AT .....AT ALL TIMES....AND NEVER EVER SAY "OH MY DAUGHTER WOULDN'T DO THAT"BECAUSE THE ONES THAT YOU THINK WON'T WILL....JUST WATCH HER CLOSELY...AND TEACH HER ABOUT ALL THE BABY STUFF AND SHE WILL BE FINE...

Answer 7

it is normal to date in middle school.

Answer 8

she be ok dont woory AND DONT BIND cause if you do she be in college trust her she  wont have s*x she a good girl because your a good mom just trust your littie baby

Answer 9

look shes in 7th grade, and now adays its normal for her to get a bf in middle school. she seems like a smart girl, and seems still kind of in the boys r icky stage. i dont think ull have much to worry about. but if she does become interested in a boy dont immediately shut her down, compromise so ur both happy. when i was in 6-7th grade i was extrememly mature for my age and really into this guy and visa versa. we wanted to go out but my parents firmly said no end of story, only in group activities and we couldnt be a couple. that really hurt us both emotionally and put a strain on our feelings of wanting to be together. so find a way to compromise so all of u are happy, and make sure she keeps u posted on wats going on if she gets a bf. not every little detail, (let her tell u them) just to make sure shes not going 2 fast.

Answer 10

Well im in 7 going into 8 grade. I have had 2 boyfriends this year. Do not tell her not to because it will maker her want to have one more! My mom told me not to i went ahead and did. At this age its not a real big deal. It's real normal. But having a boyfriend in middle school is pretty important. I know someone who went from being way popular but not ever going out with a boy so she went down to a nerd who had no friends. Trust me its no big deal!

Answer 11

it's totally normal.

Don't worry, they probably won't hang out much until she's in like eighth grade, and if you tell her no, she's probably do it anyway, i don't know your daughter, but i know how kids are. she just won't tell you.