Help i'm a social outcast!?

Question

i know a lot of people at my school, and everybody tells me i can fit in anywhere, but i feel like i don't. I've never gotten a long with people and I'm in 10th grade, my dad is starting to get really mad at me too, he says I'm gonna re great high school if i don't eventually put myself somewhere. I have a few really close friends, but even at school i feel awkward.

I need help fitting in!!

Answer 1

i guess start opening up to people get involved with sports and school activities or sometimes the other outcasts just find you

Answer 2

you need to come along with other people so that you will have many friends by taking with them just be with your self, how can you earn friends if you are afraid of talk with them, just come along...

Answer 3

Barring having rich parents, amazing looks or rockstar personality, most people don't really hit their stride until 11th or 12th grade. High School goes out of its way to make everyone feel uncomfortable both on purpose and out of their own confusion as well. For people who speak well, online chats make them close down socially, but for people who don't know what to say, the anonymity of online chats can be a good testing ground for what's appropriate and not and a kind of bootcamp for trying to find "opening lines" to start conversation and keep them going with people already sort of hostile to your existence!

Answer 4

you have to stop worrying about what people think and if you fit in... just go with the flow and be yourself... people will find you  and you will get to bond with people... just be open about your beliefs and ideas... be talkative (not to the extreme levels) and enjoy!

good luck hun! ;)

Answer 5

I am a social outcast myself...but i have a fair few close friends...enough anyway. I am a nerd....which i take as a compliment...menaing i am smart!

Trust me....if you are comfortabel with your friends then you don't need to fit in.

Email me! i can help you more.....my email is [e-mail]

Goodlcuk...have fun!

Answer 6

Everyone feels the same, whether its school, work, social clubs or whatever.  All they want to do is fit in.  Some people just do what others tell them to do and dont think too much about it, or they go along with what others want them to do for the sake of keeping the peace.  Its not that they all get along all of the time, just that a lot of the time they try to remain friends with the people around them and hang out together.

Answer 7

Just join a sport or a club you are interested in. So you can make friend who have your same interest.

You can also just take with the people in your class and become friends.

Or you can seek other outcast out and be friends with them(if your okay with it)

Or become friends with people who have no friends.

I suggest joining a sport.