Help i've been having DREAMS ABOUT MY ABUSIVE EX?

Question

i got out of an abusive relationship in may and i have tried to keep myself distracted so that i wont feel hurt like i feel like i've been in denial and i just dont want to face the truth - that i feel hurt. Well 2 nights ago i had a dream about him and in my dream this guy was either asking me out, confessing to me that he likes me, or trying to kiss me then my ex was there and he attacked the guy. I also had a dream that i was in his room and i was talking to his dad and telling his dad that he was abusive and after we broke up he talked c**p about me behind my back then my ex came in unexpectadly and he touched my face and i got a weird feeling like i still liked him but i regretted liking him. Then last night i had a dream that me and him were talking to eachother and i was asking him why he talked c**p about me to everyone and why did he betrayed me and then we ended up fighting and i walked off mad or he walked off mad and we didnt go after eachother to work things out and.....

Answer 1

I think you are just trying to heal.  Your subconscious is trying to heal and trying to also help the rest of you heal.  Don't worry.  Just allow your soul and spirit to go through whatever is necessary to heal.

Answer 2

in my own opinion its just that you made up the right choice and your sub conscious is telling you that you need someone else, but he is always there to push them away (that is telling you that he is abusive). My answer to this is just to get someone else that is nice and will take care of you, most likely you will have only one or two more dreams at most about him when you get another guy.  Ater that, move on, it will be ALOT easier.