Help i dunno?

Question

http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ah9AM5sfvJUEyaMMtd0fBzPg5gt.;_ylv=3?qid=20080627015738AAI7A9q

i know i've ask this question but i would like more answer on it and i know it should be in family but i didnt seem to get the answer i was looking for please help.

Answer 1

you were given an excellent answer in the other post.

the fact is, you are grieving your grandmother's death and you're angry that your grandfather isn't as traumatized as you are.  

you didn't live with your grandmother - he did.  he had a lot of time to come to terms with her passing and to accept that it was what was best for her.  he had a good life with her and now it's over.

would you feel better if he died of grief and boredom and neglect?