Help i hate being a teenager!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

eveyrone gets on my nerves and calls me ugly nobody likes me i hate my body i cry like everyday its just the same old bs everysingel day! what can i do to feel better

Answer 1

Your most likely suffering from depression, a lot of teenagers do. You need to talk to a close friend or family member if your feeling that bad. You can even talk to your doctor he might be able to help. Cheer up, Life isn't that bad xx take care

Answer 2

Hey, I just wanna say that I'm going through the same thing right now. Yeah,I'm a teenager and not everyone,but some close people call me ugly. And who knows,maybe other strangers. Even my mom says I'm ugly. Not straight to my face, but she's always like I should get a flat stomach. I get really upset,but I am learning to deal with it. I write down things in a journal that are going on in life. Like right now, I just finished writing something in it, call me weird if you say. But it really helps. I calmed down A LOT since then. What I do to feel better is write things down in a journal,like I said, and do my favorite things. Perhaps, if you like to draw, draw what is on your mind or something. Just let your emotions out. Also, I've learned not to believe what people tell me about my body. Well, I'm actually still working on that, but it helps a lot. For example, my older sister is a pain; she is always like "your so fat, I shouldn't be talking to you" or "you need to loose weight." You know S**t like that. So what I do is go right along with it. Say stuff like "yeah,sure" but make sure you sound un-interested. This is annoy the S**t out of them. It makes me feel better when she is annoyed,haha.

But again, it's part of growing up. Your going to have to deal with it, just like I am right now. One tip of advice, don't trust everyone. The best thing to trust right now (for me at least) is my journal. I designed it to look like a book,so people wont notice. But thats it. And may I ask, how old are you?

Hope my so-called advice helped. And take the advice from others, too. I think volunteering is excellent,by the way.

Good luck :D

Answer 3

Wait until your an adult. You get to pay for yourself then.

Why are you still up? go to bed.

You are you. If you listen to others and take them as gospel, then you should worry. Otherwise, be you and tell them to p**s off.

Answer 4

maybe you should change schools. Its tough being a teenager, to make me feel better i started volunteering. It makes you feel so good about yourself, and you might even make some great friends.

Hang in there

Answer 5

You know, darlin', NO ONE likes being a teenager.  It's NOT a fun time.

And despite what you think, EVERY teenager is filled to overflowing with the kind of doubts and negative feelings you've expressed so well here.

Seems to me that the best thing you can do is find a good-hearted person, an adult with whom you feel emotionally safe, in whom you can confide your feelings and talk things out and vent and rage and listen and share and learn and grow and cry and question.

If you won't talk to your parent(s) or a doctor or to some kinda counselor, then maybe a teacher?  A neighbor?  Someone at a place you frequent like the gym or your work (if you have a job)?

Barring that, you can check out a book or two. Sometimes reading about others like ourselves reassures us that we're not the fat ugly no-friend loser we've slid into thinking we are. I assure you, I PROMISE you, that other people, other teenagers, do not see you in the same dismal, dim, unflattering light in which you see yourself.

Do you read?  Would you at least check one or two of these books out, even if you don't usually read much?  Here are a handful of exceptionally good books for teenage girls, for what it's worth:

1. Body Drama: Real Girls, Real Bodies, Real Issues, Real Answers by Nancy Amanda Redd  (Go read/see/hear about this wonderful book here: http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/OnCall/story?i... )

2..  No Body's Perfect: Stories by Teens about Body Image, Self-Acceptance, and the Search for Identity by Kimberly Kirberger

3..  Mean Chicks, Cliques, and Dirty Tricks: A Real Girl's Guide to Getting Through the Day with Smarts and Style by Erika V. Shearin Karres

4.  Dealing with the Stuff That Makes Life Tough : The 10 Things That Stress Teen Girls Out and How to Cope with Them by Jill Zimmerman Rutledge

5.  Be True to Yourself: A Daily Guide for Teenage Girls by Amanda Ford

Your school library should have these books.

If not, your town/city library should have them.

If not, ask the librarian to get them for you from another library so you can check them out.

Amazon.com has them all if you want to buy them. (Be sure to check out Amazon's sometimes-very-cheap used prices.)

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There's no way to make being a teenager go away or to make being a teenaged girl any easier. You gotta just ride it out. You CAN make it less hurtful, though--but YOU gotta take the first steps.

Sincerely, I hope you feel better soon.

Answer 6

Find beauty in being you and learn to ignore peoples' ignorant opinions and harsh judgments. The world is full of that -- in fact, that IS the world today! If you're going to survive and live as a good person and be happy (happiness is what everyone is ultimately looking for in life), find something inside of you that you like, that no one can take away from you, and find someone above you (God). It makes rough times a lot more bearable.

I'm fifteen, so I'm sort of close to getting out of the teen years, and while I'm glad that I'll be out of the stereotypical crazy and out-of-control age group, that's pretty much what people are like in whatever age group, other than the little ones. Harsh, intolerant, judgmental.

Again, if you're going to make it, you've got to ignore "everyone" and find something that makes you truly happy that's not material and doesn't have to do with pleasing people.

Answer 7

awww I'm sorry =(

This is a normal part of being a teen.

Your not ugly though.

And dont let anyone...not even yourself tell you that.

Maybe you should write your feelings out in a journal or something.

Maybe that would help?

Answer 8

o well, it's all apart of growing up.  

Answer 9

I know it may seem like the outside apearance is everything now but when your old and in afterlife its the inside that counts just hang in there and dont listen to what people say  

Answer 10

you might have depression.

and if you dont want to go to a doctor or talk to anybody theres nothing we can really do to help you. sorry.

Answer 11

if you are crying every day and actually HATE your life your most likely in a depression......... and this means you need to get help......... though you don't want to go to the DR. but that might be the best thing to help you

Answer 12

Don't worry. I was kinda in the same situation. If someone calls you ugly, just smile at them. You kinda have a reason to. Most people are not very attractive during junior high/highschool. In fact, most people are downright UGLY. So, you're not alone. The whole smiling thing, well, anyone who is pretty in JH/HS is ugly in ten years. So, mean ugly person: "Takes one to know one!" Mean, pretty person: "Just you wait!" or "See ya in ten years!" By the way, I'm sure you're pretty because ppl are probably just saying that cause they're jealous.

Answer 13

As you get older kids mature and get nicer.

The ones that stay horrible aren't worth listening too and will end up working at walmart.  

Answer 14

their is a lot of this that is just teen stuff but none the less i would think, you might need to have a canceller or something so you have a out with somethings that you are not able to express on the net your body  changes all the time and as a teen that is more so the case so just have to bid your time and it will be right

Good luck  

Answer 15

therapy therapy therapy